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If you do not Learn to Meet your Needs Directly

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If you do not Learn to Meet your Needs Directly

If you do not learn to meet your needs directly, you will learn to meet them neurotically. You will develop routines and relationships and rituals that are designed to help you get just enough of what you want without having to ask for it directly. But never enough to feel fulfilled. To be fulfilled, we must go straight to the source. We must extract whatever it is that is fuelling our anxieties and ego trips and neurotic compulsions and fears and we must face that. Otherwise, we can waste a whole lifetime trying to understand what the soul – at its core – already knows.

~ Heidi Priebe

Attracting a Partner who Doesn’t Need to be Saved

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Attracting a Partner who Doesn’t Need to be Saved

Attracting a partner who doesn’t need to be ‘saved’ forces you to see your inherent value outside of what you can do for them. That can be difficult for someone who is used to saving others & has centered their self-worth and their identity around sacrifice.
~ Ebonee Davis

You Gotta Resurrect the Deep Pain

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You Gotta Resurrect the Deep Pain

You gotta resurrect the deep pain within you and give it a place to live that’s not within your body. Let it live in art. Let it live in writing. Let it live in music. Let it be devoured by building brighter connections. Your body is not a coffin for pain to be buried in. Put it somewhere else.
~ Ehime Ora

Here’s to the People Whose Trauma did not give them Thick Skin

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Here’s to the People Whose Trauma did not give them Thick Skin

Here’s to the people whose trauma did not give them thick skin. The ones who became more sensitive and insecure, who cry more easily, who get overwhelmed at small things. I’m so tired of the narrative that trauma makes you tough and untouchable. We’re survivors, not superheroes.

~ Jules Rylan

Our Lives are Not as Limited as we Think

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Our Lives are Not as Limited as we Think

Our lives are not as limited as we think they are; the world is a wonderfully weird place; consensual reality is significantly flawed; no institution can be trusted, but love does work; all things are possible; and we all could be happy and fulfilled if we only had the guts to be truly free and the wisdom to shrink our egos and quit taking ourselves so damn seriously.
~ Tom Robbins

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