I Knew I was Growing up When I Realized:

I knew I was growing up when I realized:
Many of the issues that I had in my relationships were the result of unhealthy boundaries.
It wasn’t my job to fix people and meddle in their problems.
Gossiping is not the only way to connect in conversations.
Some people won’t change in a time-frame that works for what I want for my life.
I was getting upset with people for being themselves (I was expecting something different, from people who hadn’t changed).
People will be upset with you for things that have nothing to do with you (they are going through something.)
Asking for help is healthy.
It isn’t always them; sometimes it’s me
~ Nedra Glover Tawwab