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7 Empowering Jiddu Krishnamurti Lessons to Live By

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Jiddu Krishnamurti (1895-1986) was a game-changing Indian philosopher. He was both an iconoclast and a humanist, focusing his considerable powers on psychological revolution, the nature of the mind, meditation, deep inquiry, human relationships, and bringing about radical change in society.

In his own words: “I am concerning myself with only one essential thing: to set man free. I desire to free him from all cages, from all fears, and not to found religions, new sects, nor to establish new theories and new philosophies.”

His influence became revoltionary when he withdrew from theosophy (particularly, The Order of the Star), noting, upon his dissolution, “I maintain that truth is a pathless land, and you cannot approach it by any path whatsoever, by any religion, by any sect. That is my point of view, and I adhere to that absolutely and unconditionally. Truth, being limitless, unconditioned, unapproachable by any path whatsoever, cannot be organized.”

Here are seven empowering lesson’s by JD Krishnamurti…

jiddu krishnamurti1) “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”

This is perhaps his most famous quote. And perhaps his most misunderstood. I think it is misunderstood because it strikes at the heart of the human condition and it’s struggle between comfort, security and safety and health, courage and freedom. It creates a deep cognitive dissonance upon contemplation.

For how do we know if we’re living in a sick society or not? How do we figure it out? What’s the measure? Krishnamurti is trying to tell us that the measure is health. So is there a way to pinpoint why our society is unfit for healthy human beings attempting to evolve in a healthier way?

Yes. There are four critical ways to tell that we live in a profoundly sick society…

1) Our society pollutes the air it needs to breathe.
2) Our society pollutes the water it needs to drink.
3) Our society pollutes the food it needs to eat.
4) Our society creates unhealthy individuals it needs to evolve with.

The bottom line is this: a society that breathes polluted air, drinks polluted water, eats polluted food and then continues to do all the things that cause that pollution is a profoundly sick society. Krishnamurti’s quote is a powerful reminder of this vital fact.

2) “The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence.”

This is a modern spin on Aristotle’s ancient wisdom, “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it,” but it’s no less powerful for that fact.

Krishnamurti is standing on the shoulder of giants like Aristotle and the Buddha in order to penetrate more deeply into the human experience. “Observing without evaluating” is the essence of Buddhist detachment. Having this ability is empowering because it keeps the human mind in an open flow relationship with reality. It keeps the mind sharp and elastic regarding its relationship with cosmos.

A mind that can observe and then let go, is a mind that is less likely to get trapped in rigid and dogmatic constructs of thought.

3) “The more you know yourself, the more clarity there is. Self-knowledge has no end – you don’t come to an achievement; you don’t come to a conclusion. It is an endless river.”

Indeed. The Self is masks all the way down perceiving illusions all the way up.

The more you know yourself, the more you realize how much of yourself is unknown. Which is a deep and penetrating clarity into the human condition. It pinpoints the infinite depths of consciousness and eventually highlights the interconnectedness of all things through a profound sense of interdependence.

Self-knowledge is an “infinite river” leading to an even greater infinite ocean. Complete knowledge of the self is unattainable, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to obtain it. Enlightenment is equally unattainable, but there’s nothing wrong with striving for it. Self-improvement is healthy regardless of the fact that you will never be perfect.

The famous inscription at the Temple of Delphi, “know thyself,” still applies. You are the greatest teacher you will never completely know.

4) “Tradition becomes our security, and when the mind is secure it is in decay.”

On a long enough timeline even the most profound and comforting traditional wisdom can become a trap for the human mind. As James Russell Lowell said, “Time makes ancient good uncouth.”krishnamurti quote e1542016700628

Why is this? Because the only permanent is impermanence. The only unchanging truth is that things will always change.

Any tradition seeking to pigeonhole truth into a box will eventually lose touch with the underlying essence of cosmic change. Likewise, the mind that adheres to the security of such a box eventually decays into mindlessness and ill-reason, as the underlying essence of cosmic change inevitably passes it by.

All the more reason to stretch one’s comfort zone. All the more reason to meet rigid security with courageous freedom. Better to test the boundaries of cultural conditioning, however secure it might be within those boundaries, than to remain in a stagnant and dogmatic state void of imagination, creativity and progressive evolution.

5) “If you begin to understand what you are without trying to change it, then what you are undergoes a transformation.”

This is a penetrating insight into the concept of self-overcoming through the practice of No-mind. Understanding what you are is an unveiling of the Self; a kind of self-unbecoming.

Unbecoming everything is a way of counterintuitively becoming everything – with a twist. The twist being awareness. Albeit a non-attached awareness, more of a floating observation that merely interprets rather than judges.

Some call it No-mind. Some call it satori. Some call it ataraxy. Either way, unbecoming everything cuts the uninitiated ego out of the equation and then sneaks in the initiated ego, which utilizes Soul as a tool to leverage a heightened state of awareness.

From this heightened state of authenticity comes the deep interdependent realization that everything is connected to everything else. Inevitably, what you are undergoes a radical transformation without effort.

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6) “Die to everything of yesterday so that your mind is always fresh, always young, innocent, full of vigor and passion.”

People all too often fall into a set way of doing things. They get too comfortable and overly complacent. They become attached to tradition. They cling to the safety and security of what they know. They lose sight of fresh insight. They fall into strict dogmatism.

“Dying to everything of yesterday” mixes things up. It challenges the Self, but it also challenges the contended onlookers, the fence sitters, and the vacillating bystanders. It frees us from the outdated delusions we have created so that we can create freshly updated delusions.

“Dying to everything of yesterday” is the personification of a walking meditation. It’s hands-on, in-the-moment interconnectedness, strategically questioning tradition so as to maintain innovation and guard against institutionalization.

Dharma can too easily become dogma. A “way” can too easily become a charade. A law can too easily become a façade. “Dying to everything of yesterday” is a seeking of authentic open-minded presence through self-overcoming.

7) “Freedom and love go together. Love is not a reaction. If I love you because you love me, that is mere trade, a thing to be bought in the market; it is not love. To love is not to ask anything in return, not even to feel that you are giving something – and it is only such love that can know freedom.”

Falling in love is both very easy and very difficult. It is easy when we are coming from a place of non-attachment and interdependence, but it is difficult when we are coming from a place of attachment and codependence. It’s the difference between being Love, and vainly trying to pigeonhole love into the box of our expectation.

True love must be free. The problem is most of us are conditioned to treat love in an ownership-based way. Love becomes a product that we consume. It becomes a trade. But true love is relationship-based not ownership-based. It’s not a product but a way of being.

The less we cling to love, the more we realize that we never owned it in the first place. It was never a thing that could be owned. It could only have ever been free, or it was never really love at all.

So, let’s learn to be Love in the face of expectation. Let’s be Love despite the love that thinks it needs validation. Let’s be Love even when others cannot. That is the heart of forgiveness.

Love authentically, let others love the way they must love, and then let go of your ego’s attachment to love. Do this, again and again, and the ability of free, soul-centric, self-actualized love will not elude you.

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Twenty-Four: The Answer to the Meaning of Death, Reality and Nothingness

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“’The answer to the great question of life, the universe and everything… Is… Forty-two,’ said Deep Thought, with infinite majesty and calm.” ~ Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy

In the spirit of high humor and cheeky nonchalance, let’s replace Douglas Adams’ famous quantum computer (Deep Thought) with an existential computer (Deeper Thought). Then let’s invert the question that we ask it: “What is the answer to the meaning of death, reality, and nothingness?”

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The answer is also inverted —twenty-four. For the same arbitrary reason that the answer to the meaning of life, the universe and everything is forty-two.

The point of these “answers” is to help us realize the futility of relying upon answers and to instead focus on finding meaning within questions. The discovery of meaning is more powerful and more fulfilling than the discovery of answers.

As Deep Thought further articulated, “Once you know what the question actually is, you’ll know what the answer means.”

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The Inverted Tree and the Mystery of Reversed Kundalini

“We are composed of agonies not polarities.” ~ James Hillman

The Inverted tree (arbor inversa), rooted in the heavens and flourishing earthward, is an archetypal meta-symbol for contrarianism, sacred inversion, and reverse-engineering.

With its lower structure fixed above, planted in thunder, and its summit here below, casting lightning, the inverted tree is the antithetical agency of mystics, shamans, and sacred clowns the world over.

As Jung quotes from the Bhagavad-Gita

“There is a fig tree
In ancient story.
The giant Savitha,
The everlasting,
Rooted in heaven,
Its branches earthward;
Each of its leaves
Is a song of the Vedas.
And he who knows it
Knows all the Vedas.”

Reversed Kundalini

Planted in the heavens by the roots of their hair (dreads) the person fortunate (unfortunate) enough to have the magical (tragic) experience of possessing a reversed kundalini is in for quite a ride.

Holding the tension between opposites, those with a reversed kundalini live between worlds, rattling the heavens and biting the earth. They are peripheral, on the edges, flirting with limits and sweet-talking them into becoming limitless.

Their shadows are white (initiated). Their halos are black (self-overcoming). They blur boundaries by maintaining the unity of opposites. They are guided by the Midnight Sun (sol niger). Their luminous shadows shine like beacons of darkness into the blinding light of “everydayness.”

Rooted in cosmos

“If you don’t become the ocean, you’ll be seasick every day.” ~ Leonard Cohen

Crowned by the earth and anchored in the universe, the inverted kundalini energy flips the script. It turns the tables on fixed notions about how energy flows. The inverted tree is groundless but not lost. It’s not homeless; it’s homefull. The vast cosmos is its bedrock, its cornerstone, its home.

Those with the inverted tree inside them experience wanderlust like no other. They cannot stay put. Their crown chakras are spinning them into earthly adventures, into manifested Hero’s Journeys, and there is much adventure to be had. The earth is a playground, and the mystics, shamans, and sacred clowns are on recess.

They don’t need “wax wings” to fly over the “labyrinth,” for they are already inherently grounded in flight. Flight is their homeland, their medium, their soulcraft. Becoming entrenched, fixed, immobilized, or buried in the mundane is what they fear.

Their version of “flying too close to the sun” is becoming stuck in a tired and banal routine.

Crowning earthward

“The roots of all living things are tied together. Deep in the ground of being, they tangle and embrace. If we look deeply, we find that we do not have a separate self-identity, a self that does not include sun and wind, earth and water, creatures and plants, and one another.” ~ Joan Halifax

With its branches fractaling earthward, the inverted tree bears fruit filled with “magic elixir.” And since it is rooted in cosmos, it doesn’t even have to “steal it from the gods.” It delivers it wholesale. It rains down the “nectar of the gods,” bypassing the gods altogether and hand-delivering New Knowledge to the tribe.

Those with reversed kundalinis must come to terms with having their crowns buried. Where most people’s crown chakras branch upward, cosmically drawn into the thousand-petaled lotus, those with the inverted tree inside them have the thousand-rooted lotus, inverting ascendant enlightenment into a sacred descent into Gaia.

Like Mother Earth herself has crowned them, or at least knighted them, as forces of nature first and people second.

Third eye primal (sacral)

“In the light there is darkness, but don’t take it as darkness. In the dark there is light, but don’t see it as light.” ~ Shunryu Suzuki

For most people, the third eye chakra opens when they make the darkness conscious or when they baptize their badness into their best or when they integrate their shadow. For those with reversed kundalinis, however, the third eye is already open, for the shadow is already a given.

It is primal. It’s intuitive. It’s umbilical. It’s felt in the gut. It’s light that must be integrated. So. Is the third eye in the sacral, or is the sacral in the third eye? Who knows? Either way, this umbilical connection is a flow state. It’s a moon eye, effecting tidal forces.

Those with reversed kundalinis “see/feel” how the unconscious connects all things. They “see/feel” how the mind-body-soul dynamic is free in its wildness. They “see/feel” the primal underpinnings connecting Nature and the human soul.

They “feel/see” wisdom, truth, and nonduality. They “feel/see” how the masculine sinks into the feminine (animus), and how the feminine absorbs the masculine (anima).

The voice of the sun

“All of us, among the ruins, are preparing a renaissance beyond the limits of nihilism. But few of us know it.” ~ Camus

With the inverted tree inside you, the sun rises up from the solar plexus and into the throat. Vocal harmonies become fiery and fierce. The Manipura vibrantly burns as it takes on the frequency of language: poetry pierces the heart, philosophy inflicts the all-too-serious self.

Speaking truth to power is second nature, melting down so-called golden idols and ruthlessly poking holes into the bloated ego of authority. Those with reversed kundalinis write with blood. They speak with ferocity.

They strike with iron-hot rhythm, flipping outdated scripts and turning entrenched tables. Their art is shock-value-happy, as it disturbs the comfortable and comforts the disturbed.

As Nietzsche writes: “Of all that is written, I love only what a person has written with his blood. Write with blood, and you will find that blood is spirit.”

The heart is the heart

“Whenever a knight of the Grail tried to follow a path made by someone else, he went altogether astray. Where there is a way or a path, it is someone else’s footsteps. Each of us must find our own way. Nobody can give you a mythology.” ~ Joseph Campbell

Nobody can give you a mythology.” It’s up to you to discover your own way. Even if you tried to adopt someone else’s mythology, or even your own culture’s story, you’d still have to live your own life. You would still be doing it your way.

So, you might as well make your own mythology to begin with. What I call Self-inflicted Mythology. This entire article is an example of it. Build off the mythologies of history, of course. Stand on the shoulders of archetypes.

Take this piece from this mythology and that piece from that mythology, but then connect it to your own unique imagination. Be creative. Think outside the box. Push your culturally-prescribed comfort zone. It’s all yours for the making.

You are the hero of your own journey. You might as well own it by creating your own mythology. If nothing else, it will make things more interesting. Life is too short not to make it interesting.

As Nietzsche said, “No artist tolerates reality.”

The heart is the heart. Whether your kundalini is reversed or not, it’s the primeval pivot point of the human condition. It sustains our roots even as it feeds our flourishing. It’s the center of the multilayered Self.

We use symbols to describe these “layers.” We call them chakras, energy points, masks, archetypes, consciousness, subconsciousness, the collective unconscious. Whatever we call it, reversed kundalini or not, we are describing the subjectively objective state of the human condition.

We are describing the unfolding, evolving, near-unexplainable Self. Creating our own mythology is a tool toward deepening that search, towards discovering meaning despite a meaningless universe.

As Walker Percy said, “The search is what anyone would undertake if he were not sunk in the everydayness of his own life. To become aware of the search is to be onto something. Not to be onto something is to be in despair.”

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Understanding the Eight Realizations of Great Beings

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“The Sutra of the eight realizations of great beings” is one of the oldest and most influential Buddhist Sutra.

Thich Nhat Hanh’s commentary on this profound sutra explains in detail how to embody the Buddhist ideals of simplicity, generosity, compassion and ultimately reach towards the goal of Enlightenment.

Let’s find out how the wisdom contained in this 2500-year-old Sutra on the eight realizations of great beings can be applied in our day-to-day life to reach our highest potential.

1) The first realization is the awareness that the world is impermanent.

It may sound nihilist in nature but delving further into it will open doors of infinite possibilities for you.

Eight Realizations of Great Beings

How many of us use terms like “I am an angry person”, “I am an anxious person” or “I am an impatient person” to describe ourselves?

How many times do we get stuck in old and repetitive patterns instead of attempting new things just because we have been through a failure or had bad experiences in relationships or career?

How many times do we throw our hands up in the air and say, “This is who I am. I can’t change.”?

Well, it’s mostly because we don’t understand the magical essence of this realization, that ‘There is always a new “present moment”.’

Each new moment is a “death” of how we used to be and “birth” of what we can be.

“Uncertainty Means Possibilities in Life.” ~ Sadhguru

Everything is impermanent and constantly changing and evolving based on its intent and experiences. The world around us as well as the thoughts, emotions or feelings inside us are constantly changing.

When we develop the habit of mindfulness through Buddhist meditation practices like Vipassana, we observe that our thoughts, emotions and body sensations arise and fall moment to moment, and they are not a permanent aspect of who we are.

This knowledge is extremely empowering because once we know that our thoughts, feelings and dispositions are affected by impermanence as much as any other thing, we do not get caught in the web of despair and hopelessness when we have negative thoughts.

When we gain control of our inner terrain through mindfulness, we do not get scared of uncertainties or impermanence in the outer world, instead we open ourselves up to a world of infinite possibilities because we are flexible to respond to them efficiently.

2) The second realization is the awareness that more desire brings more suffering.

This realization requires careful contemplation because it can be highly misinterpreted otherwise. It does not mean that all desire is bad, but it points out that ‘more’ desire leads to ‘more’ suffering.

We are the most evolved species, endowed with a unique ability to use imagination and plan our future actions. This ability to desire and want acts as a great impetus for reaching our highest potential and contributing to the society, but the problem arises when our desires turn into greed or excessive craving.

Living in a highly consumerist society, we are bombarded with subtle and not so subtle stimulus that generates unlimited wants and desire in us. We are being led into a trance of unconscious consumerism, inauthentic lifestyles and materialism. Even kids today are not untouched by this.

The solution lies in being authentic to ourselves and developing an ability to think for ourselves. I personally ask myself the following things while dealing with desires.

1) “Do I really want to do this; is it my calling, or I want to do it because I saw someone else doing it?”

If we really follow this practice sincerely, we will let go of all the fluff stuff that is acquired and focus on our true wants and desires.

2) “What is the end goal of this desire? Before jumping head on into action and acting on every impulse and desire, I contemplate on the end goal of the desire and take action accordingly.”

3) I keep in mind that desires and cravings are also subject to impermanence like everything else.

This helps me in setting up a flexible goal, course correcting on the way if the situation demands, and also being able to recognize the point where excessive desire turns into a burden of craving and needs to be let go of.

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3) The third realization is that the human mind is always searching for fulfillment outside, and it never gets fulfilled.

“Mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master.” ~ Robin Sharma

The nature of mind is that it is insatiable and constantly seeks fulfillment. It is up to us to feed it wholesome input so that it works for us and not against us.

Mind is a beautiful tool that helps us to make choices. The kind of choices that it makes depends on how we train it.

A mind that is ignorant will make poor choices leading to craving, discontent, anger, or anxiety, whereas a mind that is trained will make positive choices leading to contentment and joy.

The practice of meditation in Buddhist philosophy is to train our mind and perceive things as they are in the moment and respond efficiently.

4) The fourth realization is the awareness that laziness is an obstacle to practice and must be overcome.

Eight Realizations of Great Beings

Spirituality is a personal and inward journey. It is not something that we just practice in a yoga class or meditation cushion but translates into how we live each moment of our life. Therefore, it is important to be true to ourselves and be committed to our practice.

We must overcome any laziness or hindrance that impedes our practice.

Hindrances can come in the form of “I’ve got it” trap or “I don’t have time or place for meditation” trap or “It is not showing any results, I might just quit” trap.

This is where our commitment to practice comes in play. One practice that I follow to stay committed is that I maintain a spiritual diary to note down my daily experiences and actions. It helps me to contemplate and rectify my mistakes faster.

If we follow this practice, the spiritual diary can become our best friend and mentor and help us to make steady progress on our spiritual.

5) The fifth realization is the awareness that ignorance is the cause of endless round of birth and death.

Lifelong learning and practice is at the heart of the fifth realization.

Being mindful of every moment means welcoming each moment as it is. It means we become open to all new experiences, new information, and opportunities, and work on improving ourselves continuously so that we can become positive agents of change for ourselves as well as society.

6) The sixth realization is the awareness that poverty creates hatred and anger, which creates a vicious cycle of negative thoughts and actions. When practising generosity, bodhisattvas consider everyone friends and everyone alike.

Maitri bhavana is a core concept of Buddhism, which means – loving kindness for all sentient beings.

This practice encourages one to practice compassion towards all beings and to not hold any grudges or hatred towards anyone.

They also encourage material generosity in addition to loving kindness and compassion.

“Do give gifts! For poverty is a painful thing. One is unable, when poor, to accomplish one’s own welfare, much less that of others.” (Large Sutra of Perfect Wisdom)

An important aspect to be kept in mind while practicing generosity is ‘intent.’ The giver should give without any thought of any possible reward or appreciation in return. The giving should be done in the spirit of service and selflessness.

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7) The seventh realization is the awareness that five categories of desires lead to problems and difficulties.

The five desires that arise from our sense of touch, taste, sight, smell, and hearing are wealth, beauty, fame, food and sleep.

Like we discussed, it is not the need for these things in themselves that is perilous, but the depth of our craving or excessive greed that leads to suffering.

Through mindfulness, we can learn to distinguish between our positive desires and our cravings. We can pursue the positive desires while keeping in mind the principles of impermanence and causality in mind, and let go of our unnecessary cravings.

8) The eighth realization is the awareness that the fire of birth and death is raging, causing endless suffering everywhere. To take the great vow to help all beings, to suffer with all beings, and to guide all beings to the realm of great joy.

If we look at the idea of birth and death as changes being brought in ourselves by experiences, we will learn that we are as dynamic as we can get.

We realize that no matter what the experiences, the good, the bad or the neutral, they will pass, or we have the capacity to respond to them mindfully and remain flexible even while dealing with intense situations.

Through practice of compassion and Maitri bhavana, we are aware of the pain and suffering of others. Although, we can’t shoulder the suffering of the entire world, but we try our best to empower others through our example.

If we contemplate on these eight realizations and imbibe its essence into our lives, we will be able to alleviate suffering and realize our highest goal of liberation.

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Beyond the Cocoon: Getting Lost in the Labyrinth of Enlightenment

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“The search is what anyone would undertake if he were not sunk in the everydayness of his own life. To become aware of the search is to be onto something. Not to be onto something is to be in despair.” ~ Walker Percy

Too many of us are not onto something. Too many of us are in despair. This is usually because we’re still stuck in the Matrix, or in Plato’s Cave, or we’re still locked into a codependent struggle with culture, or we haven’t entered our cocoon phase yet.

Or we’ve yet to experience a Dark Night of the Soul, or we haven’t engaged and reconciled our Shadow, or we have yet to be initiated into a Soul-centric perspective because we’re too caught up in an egocentric perspective. The list goes on.

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This article isn’t about how to work through these things. This article is about how to get lost in the process of enlightenment after we’ve worked through these things. What do we do with the codependent residue? How do we adapt to the Desert of the Real?

What do we do with infinity? How do we negotiate the Great Mystery? How do we continue self-overcoming in a cosmos that dwarfs the self? What do we do with so many questions and no answers?

Beyond the cocoon. Beyond the Dark Night of the Soul. Beyond the Shadow. Beyond the process of initiation. Beyond the buckling thresholds. There is a place called The Labyrinth of Enlightenment.

Here, the journey is the thing. The search is the thing. Here, a sense of humor, curiosity, and imagination are strategies that an enlightened adventurer uses to leverage his/her personalized finite Fibonacci sequence (individuated ego) toward the cosmic infinite Phi (self-actualized soul). Here, the continued search for your most authentic self is the objective.

But it’s not an objective that must be met. It’s not a goal to be achieved. It’s an evolution to be lived through. It’s an adventure to be had in the moment. It’s a journey to be experienced.

It’s a process of trial and error, of ups and downs, of being mostly wrong but (maybe) sometimes right. Most of all, it’s about being okay with getting lost in the existential crisis of not knowing who we are or what the universe is.

Ironically, there’s perhaps no better way of finding your most authentic self than by getting lost. Especially if we can somehow manage to transform being lost into a meditation. When we’re in this state of being lost, we discover solitude.

Solitude is beatitude. It is oneness and grace, interdependence and sacred space. It’s being in love with simply being an aspect of an interconnected cosmos.

As Henry David Thoreau said, “I never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude.”

If it’s true that the more we know the more we realize how much we don’t know, then it stands to reason that there will always be more that is unknown than known. This is a daunting prospect. Especially for someone fresh out of the cocoon/Dark Night/Matrix/Cave.

Hence the reason why it is called the Labyrinth of Enlightenment. One can easily get lost. One can easily become bewildered by the search, confused by the signs, perplexed by the vicissitudes, and mystified by the Greater Mystery of the cosmos. It’s a big universe out there, after all, but we have big imaginations.

Surviving what we’ve survived, adapting and overcoming as we have, our imaginations are big indeed. Our comfort zones have been stretched enough that we realize everything is connected to everything else.

Our individuality, having overcome codependence, has gracefully given into interdependence. The cosmos is our oyster, and we are her polished pearls. That is precisely why it’s okay to get lost. As long as we’re “onto something.” As long as we’re already in the Labyrinth of Enlightenment.

As the Buddha clearly stated, “There are two mistakes one can make along the road to Truth: Not going all the way, and not starting.”

We’ve already “started” by escaping the Matrix/Cave, by surviving the cocoon and/or the Dark Night, by overcoming the codependent ego. Now, we have only to “go all the way.” And that means getting lost sometimes. That means being confused, overwhelmed, full of questions, and in a constant state of awe.
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If the journey is truly the thing, then it’s okay to get lost. It’s okay that we don’t know. It’s okay that we don’t have the answers. It’s okay that we will never find our way out of the maze. It’s okay that our finite perspective cannot grasp an infinite reality.

It’s even okay that we sometimes give in to the psychosocial gravitational pull of the codependent Matrix from time to time. It’s okay that inside our enlightened butterfly souls there will always be an ugly ignorant caterpillar.

The more we adapt to our own self-improvement, and the more we overcome our previous selves, the more we realize how impossible it is to be perfect or to be completely enlightened. And that too is okay. On a long enough timeline nothing is perfect. Our sense of humor is our saving grace.

Getting lost keeps us humble. It keeps us grounded. It keeps us in a constant state of astonishment, so that we are better able to appreciate beauty, to honor paradox, to be open to new experiences, to be flexible and adaptable rather than closed off and dogmatic, to be humorous and vulnerable rather than serious and invulnerable.

We’re in the Goddamned Labyrinth of Enlightenment, for fu$@s sake! There’s no room for the kind of thinking that traps us into “not being onto something.” There’s no room for a lack of imagination that traps us into “not going all the way.” There’s no place for “I’m afraid of being lost” because being lost is what we are at the core of our species.

The raw, deep-down, claws-in-heart truth is that we are a profoundly overwhelmed animal dwarfed by a magnanimously unintelligible universe. Being lost is what we are. And that’s okay. We might as well embrace it. We might as well have a laugh about it.

So, I implore you, you who have painstakingly entered the Labyrinth of Enlightenment with courage in your heart and laughter in your throat, get lost as fast as possible. Wander aimlessly in the maze of You. Become “aware of the search.” Therein will you discover adventure, hunger, passion, love, and the kind of courage that multiplies itself.

After all, it is only when you’re lost that you need to be found. And since our objective is to discover our most authentic self, being lost is the only way to be “found.”

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