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Jung’s Theory of Introvert and Extrovert Personalities

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Personality refers to an individual’s pattern of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that make a person unique. There are multiple kinds of personalities we encounter in our day-to-day lives — strong, charismatic, open-minded, shy etc.

Carl Jung’s perspective on personality is quite insightful; he wrote that what appears to be random behavior is actually the result of differences in the way people prefer to use their mental capacities.

Jung’s theory on personality types shows the various behavioural patterns and attitude.

Using the theory, you can delve deeper into your own mind and comprehend your thoughts and feelings.

Introvert and Extrovert Personalities/Attitudes:

According to Jung there are two mutually exclusive attitudes – extraversion and introversion.

“Each person seems to be energized more by either the external world (extraversion) or the internal world (introversion).”

The introvert is more comfortable with the inner world of thoughts and feelings, so they will see the world in terms of how it affects them. While the extrovert feels more at home with the world of objects and other people, and is more concerned with their impact upon the world.

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Introverts are more comfortable living alone and being by themselves. They depend on their “me time” to recharge; they become immersed in their inner world and run the risk of losing touch with their surroundings or their outer world.

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They also tend to be introspective and keep their social circle limited.

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On the contrary, are actively involved in the world of people and things; they are socially active and more aware of what is going on around them.

They like to be part of groups, communities and probable places where they get a chance to interact. The idea of being alone terrifies them, leaving them alienated from their inner selves.

Jung noted that none of us are completely extroverted or introverted, but we certainly connect to one or the other attitude. In all of us, lies an unconscious mind – one which is not conscious of feelings and thoughts all the time, but those feelings and thoughts are capable of affecting our lives nonetheless.

If you take an extrovert you will find his unconscious has an introverted quality, because all the extraverted qualities are played out in his consciousness and the introverted are left in the unconscious. (Jung in McGuire & Hull, 1977, p. 342)

Now, if the extroverts develop to know how and when to bring their unconscious introversion into composition and similarly, when introverts know when to bring their unconscious extroversion into composition, they would have command over their mental space and not vice-versa.

For example, extroverts depend on their external environment all the time. But in life we all face situations where the solution to our problems lies within us. In this situation, if extroverts learn to introspect, they would save themselves from a lot of anxiety and restlessness.

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Similarly, introverts depend on their thoughts and feelings too much. Much research has been done that shows introverts are at a greater risk of falling into depression because of their particular habit to isolate themselves in troubling times.

Here, if the introvert consciously works on activating the dormant extrovert quality and choose to speak with people about his/her problem, that might improve their situation. If nothing, one gets a different perspective than the one making rounds in our head.

One has to work on choosing the right attitude that fits in context to the situation. At times introversion is more fitting; and sometimes being extrovert is a better way to deal with a situation.

If one develops flexible approach to deal with their personality, then they are not narrowed by the limitations of being affiliated to their sole personality type. Going further on this line of Jung’s theory, he said that we all think, feel, sense and experience the world in many different ways.

He identified four essential psychological functions: thinking, feeling, sensation, and intuition. Each function may be experienced in an introverted or an extraverted fashion, and one of the functions is more dominant in each one of us.

Some of us depend on thinking and feeling rather than sensing and intuiting. Understanding this psychology could be quite fruitful to understand our world and people who influence our thoughts, feelings, senses and our inner voice. Let us understand the eight different personality types using the chart below:

As Jung noticed, in each of us, one type is dominant than the rest. Suppose, A and B are told to expect danger in a situation. Here, A is a logical being and is ruled by thinking attitude.

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He carefully analyses the situation and finds no probability of danger, which makes him take a logical decision to proceed with the situation. B, on the contrary, is guided by intuition, he is having a strong intuition about definite occurrence of danger. And so, he decides to find other ways to go about the situation.

The idea is to understand that in times when we are exposed to dynamic situations, it is great to have a state of mind that is dynamic in nature. At times going by logical thinking is of more importance than catering to confused feelings whereas at other times, believing in your intuition is much more important.

You can use this knowledge to know yourself and your actions better. Don’t be confined to one particular state of mind or personality, rather use your freewill and freedom to mould your personality.

Don’t be trapped in an enigma, as you are inherently free to be whatever you want to be; use this freedom to your advantage.

“Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery. None but ourselves can free our minds.” ~ Bob Marley

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4 Difficult Truths that will Shock You into Awareness

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“The old appeals to racial, sexual, and religious chauvinism and to rabid nationalist fervor are beginning not to work. A new consciousness is developing which sees the earth as a single organism and recognizes that an organism at war with itself is doomed.” ~ Carl Sagan

The Powers-that-be do not want a wide-awake citizenry. They want us ignorant. They want us controlled. They want us distracted. They want us naïve. They want us utterly malleable.

Divide and conquer is the name of their game. They want you to be a conditioned pawn on a rigged chessboard, a soft coyote in a hard desert, a fixed cog in a cruel clock. In other words, they want you stunted staggered and stupid.

Here are four ways in which the men behind the curtain are arduously trying to keep you that way.

Bipartisan Politics keeps you ignorant

“Rage and politics should never have been separated. Without the first, the second is lost in discourse; without the second the first exhausts itself in howls.” ~ The Invisible Committee

 

We hear it all the time: democrat this and republican that, conservative boohoo and liberal ballyhoo, right-wing whine and left-wing wail. If corporate news were a chalkboard, their political claptrap would be the nails ingloriously raking across it.

The bipartisan quagmire we find ourselves in has created for itself a plethora of out-of-date and out-of-touch morons on both sides. Even the smart ones are ignorant. Oxymoron? It sure as hell is. And here’s why:bipartisan-tyranny

Politics keeps us ignorant exactly because it is divisive. It creates entrenched thinking, even in the face of clear evidence to the contrary. It creates close-looped dialogue riddled with cognitive dissonance: an elephant chasing its tail; a donkey chasing its tail.

Round and round they go. It creates a glaring social tautology that drives us into a feeding frenzy over “whatever current fiasco the “other” side has caused” which is typically something petty and insignificant in the grand scheme of things.

Meanwhile, nothing of any significance ever gets done and the powers-that-be are rubbing their hands in evil glee at the juicy prospects that the conflict-ridden political landscape yields them.

So what can we do? We can educate ourselves in civics: the art of citizenship and power (see video). It is the responsibility of people like us, people who are trying to wake up the world toward a healthier way of living, to empower ourselves and others to become more proactive citizens.

If we are ever to live in a truly democratic world, we must become proactive citizens who know how to use (and how to be responsible with) our power. The more we remain willfully ignorant to civics and power, the more we are going to feel like suckers and amateurs in a giant Ponzi scheme.

And we will remain suckers and amateurs if we are not courageous enough to engage the world proactively, especially Ponzi schemes.

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Patriotism keeps you ignorant

“Man is the onl

y Patriot. He sets himself apart in his own country, under his own flag, and sneers at the other nations, and keeps multitudinous uniformed assassins on hand at heavy expense to grab slices of other people’s countries, and keep them from grabbing slices of his. And in the intervals between campaigns he washes the blood of his hands and works for “the universal brotherhood of man”- with his mouth.” ~ Mark Twain

If you’re a world traveler you hear it all the time: “my country is the best,” “no mine is,” “no mine.” And it typically comes from the mouths of people who have never immersed themselves in another country’s culture.

Patriotism is nothing more than a contrived notion of association and obligation that turns our homeland into a sentimental idol to be worshiped, while demanding that the individual submit his/her liberty for the aggrandizement of the state. It transforms people into sheeple, blinded by their love of the farm.

The patriotic fool bangs his chest with unfounded pride, hooting and hollering so loud that it drowns out rationality. Xenophobia becomes rampant, destroying any chance at compassion or tolerance or even love for the dreaded “Other.” Indeed, all the love is absorbed into a ball of defensive fury over one’s homeland until the fury becomes the sound of war drums banging their death knells.

Like Tony White bluntly put it, “Patriotism is selfish and irrational, hinders our judgment, divides the world, contributes to militarization, and causes war.”

The patriotic fool supports war when it is popular and simply ignores it when it’s not. Patriotism keeps us ignorant by confusing the heart with equal parts pride and blind faith, clouding our judgment and scrambling our brains into exploitable soup, which the powers-that-be capitalize on by using false flags that get the people’s blood going so that war goes from being a “horrible thing” to being the “greatest thing,” or the “only way.”

Before you know it we are counting bodies like sheep to the rhythm of the war drum, and Orwell’s “War is peace, freedom is slavery, ignorance is strength” becomes a sad reality.

Religion keeps you ignorant

“Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from a religious conviction.” ~ Blaise Pascale

a5103fc298This is perhaps the most deceptive way that the powers-that-be keep people divided and subjugated. Religion makes people gullible, self-righteous, and easy to manipulate. What better crop to pick from than the crop that is trained to never question authority (God)?

What better way to keep sheeple shepherded than to actually provide a symbol of the “good shepherd” at the center of sacred doctrines for the sheeple to hang their hats on, or furs, as the case may be?

The simple fact that religion indoctrinates ignorant people automatically leaves those people open to further indoctrination by other people who know the truth about how power really works; people who will use the fact that you’ve been indoctrinated by pseudo power to further indoctrinate you with true power.

Such manipulation is the height of evil, immoral on every level. But as long as pockets are getting fatter and power mongers are getting more powerful this unholy manipulation will continue.

So what can we do? We can teach people the difference between religion and spirituality, the difference between being treated like a child by a jealous and envious higher power who rules with fear and threats, and being an aspect of the cosmos who perceives itself in all its divine glory.

We can teach people the difference between a disempowering creed and the power of questioning all things, the difference between open-minded circumspection and close-minded dogmatism.

And most important of all, we

can teach people the difference between fear and love, by revealing to them how, as Eckhart put it, “the eye with which you see God, is the same eye with which God sees you.”

Religion teaches that everything is separate and manipulated by an all-powerful authority figure; spirituality teaches that everything is interconnected and affected by the intent of an interdependent cosmos.

Which one do you think the powers-that-be will use as a tool against you? You have a choice, right now, between fear and love.

Money keeps you ignorant

“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ~ Ernest Hemingway

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This is by far the most powerful tool in the power monger’s toolkit. What better way to keep people under control than to make them believe that everything has a cost, that nothing is free, and that everything can be transformed into a product to be peddled over: land, water, even air.

And what better tool is there other than money to use to lord over people and make them feel guilty for not being a part of a system that lords over things.

Most disgusting of all, money keeps the powers-that-be in power, which makes their power absolute, which makes its corruption absolute. It’s a power they will use to mold your ignorance into a state where you are the walking talking personification of Stockholm syndrome, a fumbling laboring fool who defends and identifies with your lords and captors.

Money is a tool, and should be used as such. But we have unknowingly become tools to money, or at least tools to the few people who are hoarding all of it. The current money-system is the head of the snake used to control us. Money was never meant to be horded or amassed, it was meant to be circulated as a way of uplifting the community.

Nothing should be moderated as much as money. The crux is that money is to humans as water is to fish. A human is just as unlikely to question the concept of money as a fish is to question the concept of water. But question it we must.

“When all the trees have been cut down,” a Cree Proverb states, “when all the animals have been hunted, when all the waters are polluted, when all the air is unsafe to breathe, only then will you discover you cannot eat money.” Let’s hope it doesn’t come to that.

So what can we do? Douglas Adams had a suggestion, “To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity.” We can will ourselves out of our ignorance by having the courage to give real service through sincerity and integrity. But we also need to get morally ruthless.

We need to wake up and smell the oil spill. We need to stop lying to ourselves. Quit standing idly by while our brains are being soaked and conditioned in a giant tub of liquid lies by money-hungry power-hungry plutocratic entities.

So pull your head out of the comfortable noose dangling down from your puppet master’s pulpit. Cut the strings! We need to put the “eco” back into economy, the people back over profits, equality over equity, and the heart over money, or we are all screwed.

And remember: the power has always been with us; money means nothing unless we allow it to mean something.

Like Voltaire said, “All paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value, zero.”

Eric Liu: Why ordinary people need to understand power

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Life is a Game, You Make the Rules!

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“Don’t take life too seriously, nobody makes it out alive, anyway” ~ Unknown

Here’s a secret: Life is not happening TO us, life is happening THROUGH us. We don’t HAVE to be a victim of circumstances, unless of course we choose to be. Our perspective about life is shaping our outer reality.

When people start to take life too seriously or start to become paralyzed by events that are happening to them, they forget how powerful they really are. We have the power to change our perspective at any point in time and therefore change how life appears.

We actually have the power to set our own rules to our own particular game of life and change how our life looks.

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Here’s how it works: Our beliefs about life shape our outer reality and set the rules of the game. The Universe (or God whichever you choose to call it) is our co-creator in our game. It is constantly trying to prove its existence to us by giving us outward affirmation of our beliefs about it.

If we believe life is hard, we are unlucky or nothing good ever happens to us, then the universe says, “Great! You believe life is hard and you are unlucky? I will give you circumstances that prove to you how powerful you and I are. I will give you circumstances that make your life hard and show how unlucky you are.”

However, if we believe life is amazing and things always work out for us and that there is a positive in every seemingly negative circumstance, the universe proves this to us as well. It is always matching us, and showing us what powerful co-creators we can be, by giving us exactly what we truly believe and what we expect.

In theory it sounds very easy, but a problem comes when we have underlying or unconscious belief systems that we may not even be aware are there.
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It is very common for most people to be holding on to some limiting beliefs about life that they have no idea they even have, which is consequently making their life game harder than it needs to be.

If you are not pleased by the way your particular game of life is going, here are some of the more common unconscious beliefs that many people have that they may not have addressed, and some daily mantras and affirmations to do in order to re-program our thoughts and consequently change the rules of our game:

1. Do I feel deserving?

This is a big one. If we don’t truly, TRULY believe we deserve to be successful, or fall in love or being living the life of our dreams, the universe cannot manifest it for us. We must believe we deserve the best in order to receive the best.

When you meditate picture in your mind being the person who has all the things you could ever want, maybe it’s your dream job, your dream spouse or living in your dream home. Does it feel comfortable or does it feel completely unbelievable or even uncomfortable to picture yourself so happy?

If it’s the latter it may mean you don’t truly feel deserving. Make your daily mantra, “I deserve (insert whatever you want, whether it be love, success, abundance etc…).

2. Do I TRULY think things are working out for the best? Or is there still a part of me that worries that my whole life is falling apart before my eyes?

Sometimes things happen to us that are unplanned. Either we can be convinced that it’s the worst thing ever, in which case we sit in resistance and end up blocking the sunshine behind the “cloud”, or we can always believe it’s for the best… EVEN if it’s not what we had planned.

If you are believing in your fear instead of trusting the universe’s timing you may miss out on all the good things that are coming to you because of the situation at hand. Make your daily mantra, “All is well. Everything is always working out in my favor.”

3. Do I believe it will be hard to make my dreams come true? Or do I believe amazing opportunities will come to me?

You make the rules! So why not picture opportunities and magical events and miraculous circumstances coming TO you? Believe in magic and the universe will start to put you in the right places at the right time.

When you start noticing tiny miracles, and synchronicities happening to you, show your gratitude that the universe is giving you the proof that your beliefs are in fact starting to manifest, but pay attention. Some synchronicities will be big and some will be smaller. Make your daily mantra, “Amazing things happen to me. I manifest miracles.”

4. Do I place blame on others or do I understand that everything that happens to me, I have consciously or unconsciously invited into my life experience for a reason?

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So many of us get stuck in the blame game. Anytime we feel sadness, anger, frustration etc… we point the finger outside of ourselves and blame another for making us feel a certain way. But no one can MAKE us feel any way. Our feelings are responses generated by us based on what we believe and expect other people to act like.

We can use our feelings constructively by asking ourselves “What does my reaction to them teach me about myself?” Or, “Where am I attached to my sense of self in this situation that is making me feel offended or upset?”

When we look at everything in the terms that we invited it into our experience, we feel empowered and waste less time focused outside and instead deal with our internal selves, which will make us not only love ourselves unconditionally but we stop believing we are victims of other people’s behavior.

Make your daily mantra, “I love myself no matter what. I love myself unconditionally”

5. Can I find the fun or silliness in almost any situation?

Many people these days get stressed about the tiniest things. They get worked up in their head about things that they have to do months from now, or whether or not people are mad at them, or did they say the wrong thing in their business meeting.

People can literally worry themselves sick about things they have no control over in the present moment. When we believe that nothing is ever as serious as people seem to make it out to be, we actually see that 99% of “problems” work themselves out whether or not we worried about them or not.

As the Dalai Lama says “If it can be solved, there is no need to worry, and if it can’t be solved, worry is of no use.” Make your daily mantra, “Life is an amazing experience, only good things come to me.”

Life can be a fun game or it can be all doom and gloom. The amazing thing is we have the absolute power to set our player mode on “easy”, “moderately hard”, or “difficult” and we can choose to change our settings at any time.

As for me, I will choose “easy, fun, and exciting” as the settings on my game of life. What do you choose?

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The Truth about Who You Really Are

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“Beyond a certain point, the whole universe becomes a continuous process of initiation.” ~ Robert Anton Wilson

Are you ready for the truth? Do you want to know who you really are? What the deep down you really is? What it really means to be a being who perceives an infinite reality using finite faculties? More than likely you are not ready, simply because a great majority of people are not ready.

But just in case you are, and you, like Terence McKenna said, “have taken seriously the notion that understanding the universe is your responsibility, because the only understanding of the universe that will be useful to you is your own understanding” then this article is for you.

Imagine that you are primordial energy itself. Visualize yourself moving at the speed of light from the embryonic singularity that was the big bang. You can neither be created nor destroyed, but you are constantly changing form. You become burgeoning galaxies.

You become exploding stars. You become distinct planets. You become precious water and oxygen. You become the process of life itself. You become living organisms: plants, trees, animals. Then you become a peculiar type of animal called a human being that can actually name things, and label aspects of yourself.

That can actually break down your infinite structure through a crude trial and error process that reminds you of evolution. Then you become a unique human being, one with unique fingerprints and distinctive facial features. You are born on a particular date.

You are given a particular name. You grow up with an idea of who you are, or who you might be, and that idea leads you, inevitably, to you sitting, wherever you happen to be sitting at this moment, reading this article.

The First Law of Thermodynamics is, “Energy can neither be created nor destroyed, but can change form.”

This is also known as the law of conservation of energy. This is the truth of who you are. You are an aspect of this thermodynamics.

You are the walking, talking, laughing, pissing, shitting personification of the energy inherent within the universe that’s been changing form since the beginning of time. Everything that you are made of was once in the fiery guts of a star.

The energy flowing through your body right now is the same exact energy that was blazing at the beginning of the universe. It simply went through many different forms to eventually come to enliven your mind body and soul with its current vitality.

The real deep down you is a quantum singularity that’s longing, yearning, craving to observe itself in action, to become aware of itself in all its galactic glory. You are not a speck within the universe; you are the entire universe within a speck. Indeed, you are the universe trying to convince itself of itself.

Like Alan Watts said, “What you do is what the whole universe is doing at the place you call here and now. You are something the whole universe is doing in the same way that the wave is something that the whole ocean is doing. The real you is not a puppet that life pushes around. The real deep-down you is the whole universe.”

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You are energy that can neither be created nor destroyed, but that can, and will, change form. You changed form at the beginning of the universe. You changed form when you became a star.

You changed form when you exploded your rich starry guts into what became the earth. You changed form, many times over, through the process of evolution.

You changed form when you were born. And you will change form when you die. Life is not crudely linear, it is vibrantly non-linear. Life has, and will always have, a non-linear dimensionality. There’s no escaping it.

There is only relishing in its absolute non-linear beauty and elegance of form: love. Lest we fall into the trap of resenting the world through the manipulation of crude linearity and the idea of separation: fear.

I could go on and on talking about how the combined understanding of Heisenberg’s uncertainty principle, Schrodinger’s equation, Godel’s Incompleteness theorem, quantum entanglement, the Two Slit Experiment, and the many-worlds interpretation of the quantum enigma all naturally lead to this conclusion, but that’s just linear claptrap vainly attempting to think non-linearly. There is even an eye-opening hypothesis (biocentrism) that reveals how life continues after death.

But all you really need to know is that the only way reality suffers from paradox is in the sense that you yourself are a walking, talking paradox. Reality itself involves our consciousness, and this creates paradox.

Space and time are merely tools of our mind that we use to leverage meaning against meaninglessness. We ARE the primordial energy, the same energy that’s been kicking since the beginning of the universe, and that has gone through enough forms to become us (you and me) who are perceiving the universe (which is ourselves) unfolding.

At the end of the day, the nature of reality goes beyond the big bang theory, or any theory, really. This is because all human theories are inherently finite-bias-laden (finite-bias principle): they are based upon the false assumption that the universe is something that’s “out there” rather than inside us, which brings us full-circle back to the undeniable fact that we are an aspect of the universe perceiving itself.

We are not merely independent, consciously aware beings perceiving the universe; we are interdependent aspects of the universe consciously perceiving itself.

Like G. Spencer cryptically stated, “The universe must expand to escape the telescopes through which we, who are it, are trying to capture it, which is us.”

So who are you? You are me. Who am I? I am you. We are Cosmos. We are the very fabric and structure of existence perceiving itself. But, and here’s the rub, so is everyone else. I’m not great because I KNOW this is who I am; I’m great because this IS who I am. And suddenly we are not so small.

Robert Lanza: The Theory of Biocentrism, Part 1

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Spontaneity: Why It’s Better than Having a Plan

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 “We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” ~ Joseph Campbell

Be born, go to school, get a job, get married, have kids, have grandkids, get old, die. That’s the plan right? Well, so we think. Unfortunately so many get stuck in this cookie cutter idea of what life is supposed to look like, only to live in constant frustration and disappointment that their life looks nothing like the standardized version.

Life may drift them more and more off course, and they keep trying to control the helm by bringing it back to the life they think they should have, like the characters on TV.

Unfortunately much of their life is spent in the struggle trying to get back “on course”, or what they believe is “on course.” So much time is wasted in this struggle to no avail.

Only when a person just gives up, surrenders to the tides of their life are they able to see that their idea of how things were SUPPOSED to go was causing them a constant frustration because they were never actually enjoying anything about the present moment, or the way things WERE going.

Who says things have to go exactly like that? If things aren’t going exactly like the social norm does that means that things have gone “wrong”?

The fun and adventure lies in the spontaneity, in the suspense, in the uncertainty. Of course it’s fun to have goals and aspirations, things that we envision ourselves doing and ways that we can offer our gifts and talents to the world, but in order to become more open to possibilities and opportunities that are awaiting us, ones that we never expected were possible, the most important thing we need to do is stop planning our futures so rigidly. quote-life

We must allow ourselves to relinquish the need to have absolute control over every single situation, small or big. We must let something else take over, something that knows way more than we do….

“When I finally learned to let go of having to totally control everything around me and let my life unfold, I was stunned by the results. How could I have ever thought I could outsmart the Universe?” ~ Geri Larkin

The problem with trying to control how every situation will go is that we cannot always see the bigger picture in every situation. We have no idea why we didn’t get the job we applied for, or why our partner decided to leave us, or why the car wouldn’t start on our way to work.

All the ego knows is that this situation was “bad”, we experienced some sense of sadness or pain, and because it does not desire to feel uncertain, or pain, sadness or vulnerability ever again, it must plan. It must control how everything in the future will go, so as to never feel out of control or open to chance ever again.

However, so much of our life is dependent upon things that we cannot control completely. The weather, traffic, how other people behave, whether or not we get the big promotion, who we meet and how we meet them, are all things that we cannot control 100% of the time.

But the question is, why would we want to? Having total control over every single situation is not only an exhausting endeavor for us but is also a stifling experience for the people in our lives. The result of this fear of losing control is that we limit the universe in being able to direct us to paths that we may not have ever thought of on our own.

As soon as an opportunity or possibility is presented to us that doesn’t fit into our box, or rather our plan of what our life is supposed to look like, we turn away from it and label it “bad idea”… bad idea because it’s not what we think life is supposed to look like.

But if we look at our life from a broader view, from the big picture perspective, and openly accept the fact that we didn’t get the job, or we were dumped by our partner, or our car breaking down made us late for an appointment, we may in fact realize a better job opening was coming along, a new healthier relationship was just around the corner, or our car breaking down prevented us from being involved in a huge accident on the highway.
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So just because a situation is not what we WANTED to happen, or what we planned on happening does not necessarily mean that it was bad.

We can look at life in two different ways, one is that things don’t go as planned and that’s a bad thing, or we can look at it as if we live in a universe that always conspires for our greater good, so when something goes “wrong” or unplanned, we trust that it was for our greater good, always, even if we never see exactly why. The first option leaves us in constant resistance, and angry, bitter and stressed out constantly… and the second one leaves us grateful, accepting, and excited everyday about what that day may bring.

“At times the world may seem an unfriendly and sinister place, but believe that there is much more good in it than bad. All you have to do is look hard enough. And what might seem to be a series of unfortunate events may in fact be the first steps of a journey” ~ Lemony Snicket

If we envision anything for our future selves it should be that we are the best version of ourselves possible. We are healthy, and happy and doing something that we love to do and surrounded by people that love us. If we make the main focus health and happiness we leave ourselves open to all the many paths and roads and trails that one might take to achieve these goals, instead of getting too attached to exactly how we think life should happen.

Think of the universe like the navigational system in the car, we know the end destination (us being the best version of ourselves), but the HOW we get there is always up in the air.

We may take a million left turns, take the scenic route or we may take the shortest route possible, only to find a happier more fulfilling destination mid-way through. The one thing that we can depend on though is that the universe never lets us get completely off course.

There is never too many “wrong turns” that the intelligence of the universe cannot re-route us back to being on track to our final destination. In fact, there is no “wrong” turns at all, there are only routes that allowed us to enjoy the view a little longer and take things a little slower, or routes that got us to our destination very quickly. Either way, we realize the fun was in the unexpectedness of the adventure.

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