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Six Alternative Ways to Jumpstart your World into Higher Consciousness

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“Let us curiously test new ideas and court new impressions, never acquiescing to facile orthodoxy. Philosophy may help us gather up what might otherwise pass un-regarded, for philosophy is the microscope of thought.” ~ A.C. Grayling

There are many conventional ways toward achieving higher states of consciousness – meditation, yoga, martial arts, a good dialectic debate, cannabis, and/or ayahuasca, just to name a few– but sometimes we may even need to think outside of thinking outside the box.

Hell, with just a little imagination and a sprinkle of courage we can think outside of almost any box, ad infinitum, if we really put our soulful effort into it.

So in the spirit of such efforts, I present to you my six (out of an infinite amount of) alternative ways to jumpstart your world into higher consciousness.

1.) Eat Your Shadow

“The greatest and most important problems of life are all in a certain sense insoluble. They can never be solved, but only outgrown.” ~ Carl Jung

That’s right, ‘eat’ your shadow. Gobble it up. Let the digestive process enlighten you. In her book “Zen Miracles,” Brenda Shoshanna defines the shadow as the unacceptable aspects of ourselves that we dump into our unconscious minds.

The antidote, says Shoshanna, is to “eat our shadow” –haul it up from out of the abyss and develop an authentic connection with it. This is akin to embracing the shadow so as to transform it into our ally, as opposed to suppressing it and allowing it to become our enemy.

Growth, maturity and wisdom rely upon our capacity to will the whole of ourselves, the good and the bad, the dark and the light, the moral and the immoral, into an honest reconciliation that becomes a compassionate interdependent force to be reckoned with, and which launches us into higher consciousness.

2.) Dance with your inner-beast

“Be wild; that is how to clear the river. The riverdoes not flow in polluted, we manage that. The river does not dry up, we block it. If we want to allow it its freedom, we have to allow our ideational lives to be let loose, to stream, letting anything come, initially censoring nothing. That is creative life. It is made up of divine paradox. To create one must be willing to be stone stupid, to sit upon a throne on top of a jackass and spill rubies from one’s mouth. Then the river will flow.” ~ Clarissa Pinkola Estés

That’s right. Play jazz with your animal self. Dance the foxtrot with your instincts. Tango with your untamed body knowledge of the universe; that part of you that speaks a language older than words, and speaks it loud and clear.

Reconnect with that often neglected, often suppressed, often frowned-down-upon, savage, prima material heart of Man. Because try as we foolishly may, we cannot split ourselves from the cosmos. We are born of it.

We are it. Insofar as we do split ourselves, it is just our own disillusionment, dissociation, and disenchantment toward the nature of things.

The sooner we get back in touch with ourselves as interdependent animals in tune with nature and with the cosmos, the sooner we can put an end to the disenchantment and dissociation, and the sooner we can once again be enchanted by the awe-inspiring interconnectedness of all things.

3.) Drink some Perception Overhaul Tea

“To awaken to how one’s own story aligns with the story of a place, and of the planet, is to outgrow the needless omnipotent isolation that breeds so many kinds of anguish and anger.” ~ Craig Chalquist

Mmm, delicious! It’s called Perception Overhaul Tea, made by the good folks at Pot Calling the Kettle Black Café.

It’s not just an acronym that spells “pot” it’s a metaphorical beverage that launches you into a higher state of consciousness simply by imagining that it does so, similar to a self-induced placebo effect. Drinking its contents allows for a thorough repair, renovation, and revision of our flawed outlook on life.

Like Joseph Campbell’s “magic elixir” it’s a mythological symbol for psycho-physiological change. It represents the conscious intent to trump the unconscious condition. It is the lifting of the veil of inadequate perception.

Whether real or imaginary, the symbolic resonance is poignant. It catalyzes by creating a state of psychological dissonance that usurps the throne of everyday comfort and control, and replaces it with open-minded awareness and flexibility, stretching our comfort zone and leaving us open to the once hidden wonders of the universe.

4.) Try Archetypal Mirroring

“A true artist should put a generous deceit upon the spectators.” ~ Edmund Burke

Dive headfirst into the human leitmotif. Jump into the collective unconscious. Look into any mirror and with a little imagination you can see any archetype.

The task of archetypal mirroring is similar to standing on the shoulders of giants, but with the additional tactic of symbolic mask-wearing.

It can be an actual mask or an imaginative mask or, even better, an actual mask you made from your own artistic vigor.  

Masks are one of the oldest forms of human expression. They can be a powerfully symbolic channeling of the universal archetypes. Besides their artistic and mystical roles, masks have a psychosocial function that can actually invert the roles of a society.

They have the power to free people from stagnant perceptions and give them the ability to fully express their cosmic nature. Note: these are not masks of concealing, but masks of revealing.

So feel free to don the Buddha Mask and discover inner peace by sailing the nautical ley lines toward enlightenment. Don the Christ Mask and walk upon the waters of self-sacrifice while anchoring your soul to salvation.

Don the Nietzsche Mask and rage against dogmatism while surfing the waves of nihilism into eternal ecstasy and self-overcoming. Or don the mask of any of the twelve common archetypes and use them as tools to make your spirit soar beyond what you once found to be possible.

5.) Practice the Art of Drowning

“He is a sane man who can have tragedy in his heart and comedy in his head.” ~ G.K. hesterton

This is the art of catharsis. Change is constant. Old unhealthy ways must die in order for new and healthier ways to emerge.

But it doesn’t come easy. It is a painful process. It requires a new form of courage. It requires falling into the abyss and climbing back out again. It involves “drowning” yourself in the abyss, in your anxiety of death and your fear of oblivion.

It requires dying a small death and being reborn again, realizing that you’re already a tiny oblivion in and of yourself, and that’s okay.

Embrace your own existential anxiety as a means toward coming to terms with it. Smile at death. Shake hands with doubt. High-five fear. Laugh at the meaninglessness of it all.

Allow all previous knowledge to drown in the dark existential waters of the abyss and then let the “cream rise to the top.” What remains is an open-minded, open-hearted platform from which all higher learning can be staged.

Use it to build new and amazing progressive technologies and philosophies; ones that have the potential to launch our species into a whole new era of healthy evolution.

6.) Use McGee’s Guillotine

“One Buddhist monk leaned over to another and quietly asked, “Are you not thinking what I’m not thinking?”” ~ Anonymous

Is cognitive dissonance getting the best of you? Try McGee’s guillotine. Is your worldview stifling, close-minded, rigid, and/or dogmatic? Try McGee’s guillotine. Is your weltanschauung preventing your inner ubermensch from howling? Try McGee’s guillotine, an addendum to Occam’s razor.

Its single task and raison d’etre being: Worldviews should not be aggrandized unnecessarily, therefore when you’re faced with two competing worldviews that oppose each other, the healthier one tends to be the right one, and the unhealthier one should be learned from and discarded. McGee’s Guillotine chops away the ignorance of human opinion and replaces it with natural dictation.

It goes beyond shedding the superfluous and cuts the human head (ego) out of the equation, so that a new healthier head (ego) can grow back: open-minded and non-dogmatic, flexible and elegant, and confident in its self-actualization of the original equation.

So is your independence or codependence preventing you from experiencing interdependence? Is your cultural preconditioning preventing you from seeing that there are more ways than one to live under the sun?

Is attachment to the ego preventing you from individuation and potential enlightenment? Try McGee’s guillotine. It’s free, or your money back. Shipping and handling is inherently included. Namaste.

Reflections of the Inner World

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reflection-of-the-self “Everything inside and around us wants to reflect itself in us. We don’t have to go anywhere to obtain the truth. We only need to be still and things will reveal themselves in the still water of our heart.” – Thích Nhất Hạnh

There is purity in the gaze of the being in the mirror. Vulnerability and truth, that allows for its audience to levy their perception. It stands as a metaphor to reality as an image forged of clarity, with the backdrop of attachments that crowd our lives through instruments of sentimental canalizations.

The reflection is pure, for it has no perception that plagues [defines] its existence, it is born anew when we set before a reflective surface and dies as it watches us leave. It holds no prejudice to past or future, while we see our identity leashed to our predominant tendencies.

As we consciously move our gaze to all the parts of its façade fixated on its flaws and beauty; it beholds staring into the eyes of its creator. The soul purpose of its existence martyred to the schism of polarization and self-analysis.

The reflection’s contortion towards vulnerability parallels our own. Vulnerability is a glimpse of skin underneath the carefully constructed façade of the personality. We project onto our reflections as they function in a spiritual sense, as windows into our esoteric landscape. The thoughts we project onto our reflections wreak insurgence deep within our subtle perception mechanisms. Its luster burns with purity despite all our bigotries dulling our own.

You look and you may stare but if you don’t give something of yourself, you will never know that which you see. Encounters with people are deeply entwined with subtle encounters within ourselves through the drama of connection.

We are never conditioned at our conception to crave acceptance and affection of another; in the ways we grow to develop these attachments. Through our interactions and its underlying intercourse with exchange of energies and thoughts. Involvement beckons a sense of cravings and aversions to situations, facets of each other’s personalities and energies. Through all this outward projection stares a glimmer of our internal attachment to these tendencies, to which our reactions are an outcry.
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“If you want to awaken all of humanity, then awaken all of yourself. If you want to eliminate the suffering in the world, then illuminate all that is dark and negative in yourself. Truly, the greatest gift you have to give is that of your own self Transformation” – Lao Tzu

To the perceptive every encounter with life reveals a circumstantial teaching, one that’s only relevant to the recipient; and varied as does its variables with each individual participant. Its only when each aspirant of collective connection understands something internally can they achieve effective external communication and interactional play.

“The gift you offer another person is just, your being” – Ram Dass

Some of the grosser manifestations of more commonly experienced emotions through sensations are: anger, sorrow, pain. These emotions impose discomfort on the ego or body through acute vibrational variations in the sublet fractal bodies. Such sensations reciprocate an overwhelming need to assert ones predominance over the external tyrant, be it in the form of scratching an itch or retorting during an argument.

Negative reactions have an effect of cloaking the esoteric imbalance within the subconscious. Influencing us to receive inputs based on the attachments to these vibrations. Placing the ‘inflector’ of our perceived enragement on center stage as we lash out externally for a conditioning that is predominantly internal.

Thus when we approach the situation of anger or pain with realization and awareness of these tendencies, we reproach them with a loving ease within ourselves and influence a clam and positive vibration to deal with the external manifestation. Its only through a liberated understanding of our own body, mind and soul can we ignite our inherent compassion.

“If you maintain a feeling of compassion, loving kindness, then something automatically opens your inner door. Through that, you can communicate much more easily with other people.  And that feeling of warmth creates a kind of openness. You’ll find that all human beings are just like you, so you’ll be able to relate to them more easily.” ― Dalai Lama XIV, The Art of Happiness
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We have tendencies of placing objectives and purpose on our bodily selves. These attachments then go on to define our quality of life. It is paramount for our well-being to find our purpose through the heart, based on how and what we feel in every situation and work from this space to build our lives.

As a race we need to evolve our collective consciousness to ascend from antagonizing the mind with thoughts that arise through our egoistic propensities to court material and physical gains. Those distractions are designed to trap us within our sacral chakra as they create an overwhelming need for acquisition and entitlement. Leaving us forever blindsided to the true purpose of our reflection, fooling us into bathing it in our debauchery of thought deprivation.

“Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” – Carl Jung

We need to awaken to the capacity for love and compassion in ourselves to be able to truly see every individual. Realize that you are seeing a beacon of humanity in the twinkle of your reflection.

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Jung’s Theory of Introvert and Extrovert Personalities

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Personality refers to an individual’s pattern of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that make a person unique. There are multiple kinds of personalities we encounter in our day-to-day lives — strong, charismatic, open-minded, shy etc.

Carl Jung’s perspective on personality is quite insightful; he wrote that what appears to be random behavior is actually the result of differences in the way people prefer to use their mental capacities.

Jung’s theory on personality types shows the various behavioural patterns and attitude.

Using the theory, you can delve deeper into your own mind and comprehend your thoughts and feelings.

Introvert and Extrovert Personalities/Attitudes:

According to Jung there are two mutually exclusive attitudes – extraversion and introversion.

“Each person seems to be energized more by either the external world (extraversion) or the internal world (introversion).”

The introvert is more comfortable with the inner world of thoughts and feelings, so they will see the world in terms of how it affects them. While the extrovert feels more at home with the world of objects and other people, and is more concerned with their impact upon the world.

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Introverts are more comfortable living alone and being by themselves. They depend on their “me time” to recharge; they become immersed in their inner world and run the risk of losing touch with their surroundings or their outer world.

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They also tend to be introspective and keep their social circle limited.

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On the contrary, are actively involved in the world of people and things; they are socially active and more aware of what is going on around them.

They like to be part of groups, communities and probable places where they get a chance to interact. The idea of being alone terrifies them, leaving them alienated from their inner selves.

Jung noted that none of us are completely extroverted or introverted, but we certainly connect to one or the other attitude. In all of us, lies an unconscious mind – one which is not conscious of feelings and thoughts all the time, but those feelings and thoughts are capable of affecting our lives nonetheless.

If you take an extrovert you will find his unconscious has an introverted quality, because all the extraverted qualities are played out in his consciousness and the introverted are left in the unconscious. (Jung in McGuire & Hull, 1977, p. 342)

Now, if the extroverts develop to know how and when to bring their unconscious introversion into composition and similarly, when introverts know when to bring their unconscious extroversion into composition, they would have command over their mental space and not vice-versa.

For example, extroverts depend on their external environment all the time. But in life we all face situations where the solution to our problems lies within us. In this situation, if extroverts learn to introspect, they would save themselves from a lot of anxiety and restlessness.

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Similarly, introverts depend on their thoughts and feelings too much. Much research has been done that shows introverts are at a greater risk of falling into depression because of their particular habit to isolate themselves in troubling times.

Here, if the introvert consciously works on activating the dormant extrovert quality and choose to speak with people about his/her problem, that might improve their situation. If nothing, one gets a different perspective than the one making rounds in our head.

One has to work on choosing the right attitude that fits in context to the situation. At times introversion is more fitting; and sometimes being extrovert is a better way to deal with a situation.

If one develops flexible approach to deal with their personality, then they are not narrowed by the limitations of being affiliated to their sole personality type. Going further on this line of Jung’s theory, he said that we all think, feel, sense and experience the world in many different ways.

He identified four essential psychological functions: thinking, feeling, sensation, and intuition. Each function may be experienced in an introverted or an extraverted fashion, and one of the functions is more dominant in each one of us.

Some of us depend on thinking and feeling rather than sensing and intuiting. Understanding this psychology could be quite fruitful to understand our world and people who influence our thoughts, feelings, senses and our inner voice. Let us understand the eight different personality types using the chart below:

As Jung noticed, in each of us, one type is dominant than the rest. Suppose, A and B are told to expect danger in a situation. Here, A is a logical being and is ruled by thinking attitude.

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He carefully analyses the situation and finds no probability of danger, which makes him take a logical decision to proceed with the situation. B, on the contrary, is guided by intuition, he is having a strong intuition about definite occurrence of danger. And so, he decides to find other ways to go about the situation.

The idea is to understand that in times when we are exposed to dynamic situations, it is great to have a state of mind that is dynamic in nature. At times going by logical thinking is of more importance than catering to confused feelings whereas at other times, believing in your intuition is much more important.

You can use this knowledge to know yourself and your actions better. Don’t be confined to one particular state of mind or personality, rather use your freewill and freedom to mould your personality.

Don’t be trapped in an enigma, as you are inherently free to be whatever you want to be; use this freedom to your advantage.

“Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery. None but ourselves can free our minds.” ~ Bob Marley

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4 Difficult Truths that will Shock You into Awareness

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“The old appeals to racial, sexual, and religious chauvinism and to rabid nationalist fervor are beginning not to work. A new consciousness is developing which sees the earth as a single organism and recognizes that an organism at war with itself is doomed.” ~ Carl Sagan

The Powers-that-be do not want a wide-awake citizenry. They want us ignorant. They want us controlled. They want us distracted. They want us naïve. They want us utterly malleable.

Divide and conquer is the name of their game. They want you to be a conditioned pawn on a rigged chessboard, a soft coyote in a hard desert, a fixed cog in a cruel clock. In other words, they want you stunted staggered and stupid.

Here are four ways in which the men behind the curtain are arduously trying to keep you that way.

Bipartisan Politics keeps you ignorant

“Rage and politics should never have been separated. Without the first, the second is lost in discourse; without the second the first exhausts itself in howls.” ~ The Invisible Committee

 

We hear it all the time: democrat this and republican that, conservative boohoo and liberal ballyhoo, right-wing whine and left-wing wail. If corporate news were a chalkboard, their political claptrap would be the nails ingloriously raking across it.

The bipartisan quagmire we find ourselves in has created for itself a plethora of out-of-date and out-of-touch morons on both sides. Even the smart ones are ignorant. Oxymoron? It sure as hell is. And here’s why:bipartisan-tyranny

Politics keeps us ignorant exactly because it is divisive. It creates entrenched thinking, even in the face of clear evidence to the contrary. It creates close-looped dialogue riddled with cognitive dissonance: an elephant chasing its tail; a donkey chasing its tail.

Round and round they go. It creates a glaring social tautology that drives us into a feeding frenzy over “whatever current fiasco the “other” side has caused” which is typically something petty and insignificant in the grand scheme of things.

Meanwhile, nothing of any significance ever gets done and the powers-that-be are rubbing their hands in evil glee at the juicy prospects that the conflict-ridden political landscape yields them.

So what can we do? We can educate ourselves in civics: the art of citizenship and power (see video). It is the responsibility of people like us, people who are trying to wake up the world toward a healthier way of living, to empower ourselves and others to become more proactive citizens.

If we are ever to live in a truly democratic world, we must become proactive citizens who know how to use (and how to be responsible with) our power. The more we remain willfully ignorant to civics and power, the more we are going to feel like suckers and amateurs in a giant Ponzi scheme.

And we will remain suckers and amateurs if we are not courageous enough to engage the world proactively, especially Ponzi schemes.

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Patriotism keeps you ignorant

“Man is the onl

y Patriot. He sets himself apart in his own country, under his own flag, and sneers at the other nations, and keeps multitudinous uniformed assassins on hand at heavy expense to grab slices of other people’s countries, and keep them from grabbing slices of his. And in the intervals between campaigns he washes the blood of his hands and works for “the universal brotherhood of man”- with his mouth.” ~ Mark Twain

If you’re a world traveler you hear it all the time: “my country is the best,” “no mine is,” “no mine.” And it typically comes from the mouths of people who have never immersed themselves in another country’s culture.

Patriotism is nothing more than a contrived notion of association and obligation that turns our homeland into a sentimental idol to be worshiped, while demanding that the individual submit his/her liberty for the aggrandizement of the state. It transforms people into sheeple, blinded by their love of the farm.

The patriotic fool bangs his chest with unfounded pride, hooting and hollering so loud that it drowns out rationality. Xenophobia becomes rampant, destroying any chance at compassion or tolerance or even love for the dreaded “Other.” Indeed, all the love is absorbed into a ball of defensive fury over one’s homeland until the fury becomes the sound of war drums banging their death knells.

Like Tony White bluntly put it, “Patriotism is selfish and irrational, hinders our judgment, divides the world, contributes to militarization, and causes war.”

The patriotic fool supports war when it is popular and simply ignores it when it’s not. Patriotism keeps us ignorant by confusing the heart with equal parts pride and blind faith, clouding our judgment and scrambling our brains into exploitable soup, which the powers-that-be capitalize on by using false flags that get the people’s blood going so that war goes from being a “horrible thing” to being the “greatest thing,” or the “only way.”

Before you know it we are counting bodies like sheep to the rhythm of the war drum, and Orwell’s “War is peace, freedom is slavery, ignorance is strength” becomes a sad reality.

Religion keeps you ignorant

“Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from a religious conviction.” ~ Blaise Pascale

a5103fc298This is perhaps the most deceptive way that the powers-that-be keep people divided and subjugated. Religion makes people gullible, self-righteous, and easy to manipulate. What better crop to pick from than the crop that is trained to never question authority (God)?

What better way to keep sheeple shepherded than to actually provide a symbol of the “good shepherd” at the center of sacred doctrines for the sheeple to hang their hats on, or furs, as the case may be?

The simple fact that religion indoctrinates ignorant people automatically leaves those people open to further indoctrination by other people who know the truth about how power really works; people who will use the fact that you’ve been indoctrinated by pseudo power to further indoctrinate you with true power.

Such manipulation is the height of evil, immoral on every level. But as long as pockets are getting fatter and power mongers are getting more powerful this unholy manipulation will continue.

So what can we do? We can teach people the difference between religion and spirituality, the difference between being treated like a child by a jealous and envious higher power who rules with fear and threats, and being an aspect of the cosmos who perceives itself in all its divine glory.

We can teach people the difference between a disempowering creed and the power of questioning all things, the difference between open-minded circumspection and close-minded dogmatism.

And most important of all, we

can teach people the difference between fear and love, by revealing to them how, as Eckhart put it, “the eye with which you see God, is the same eye with which God sees you.”

Religion teaches that everything is separate and manipulated by an all-powerful authority figure; spirituality teaches that everything is interconnected and affected by the intent of an interdependent cosmos.

Which one do you think the powers-that-be will use as a tool against you? You have a choice, right now, between fear and love.

Money keeps you ignorant

“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ~ Ernest Hemingway

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This is by far the most powerful tool in the power monger’s toolkit. What better way to keep people under control than to make them believe that everything has a cost, that nothing is free, and that everything can be transformed into a product to be peddled over: land, water, even air.

And what better tool is there other than money to use to lord over people and make them feel guilty for not being a part of a system that lords over things.

Most disgusting of all, money keeps the powers-that-be in power, which makes their power absolute, which makes its corruption absolute. It’s a power they will use to mold your ignorance into a state where you are the walking talking personification of Stockholm syndrome, a fumbling laboring fool who defends and identifies with your lords and captors.

Money is a tool, and should be used as such. But we have unknowingly become tools to money, or at least tools to the few people who are hoarding all of it. The current money-system is the head of the snake used to control us. Money was never meant to be horded or amassed, it was meant to be circulated as a way of uplifting the community.

Nothing should be moderated as much as money. The crux is that money is to humans as water is to fish. A human is just as unlikely to question the concept of money as a fish is to question the concept of water. But question it we must.

“When all the trees have been cut down,” a Cree Proverb states, “when all the animals have been hunted, when all the waters are polluted, when all the air is unsafe to breathe, only then will you discover you cannot eat money.” Let’s hope it doesn’t come to that.

So what can we do? Douglas Adams had a suggestion, “To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity.” We can will ourselves out of our ignorance by having the courage to give real service through sincerity and integrity. But we also need to get morally ruthless.

We need to wake up and smell the oil spill. We need to stop lying to ourselves. Quit standing idly by while our brains are being soaked and conditioned in a giant tub of liquid lies by money-hungry power-hungry plutocratic entities.

So pull your head out of the comfortable noose dangling down from your puppet master’s pulpit. Cut the strings! We need to put the “eco” back into economy, the people back over profits, equality over equity, and the heart over money, or we are all screwed.

And remember: the power has always been with us; money means nothing unless we allow it to mean something.

Like Voltaire said, “All paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value, zero.”

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Life is a Game, You Make the Rules!

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“Don’t take life too seriously, nobody makes it out alive, anyway” ~ Unknown

Here’s a secret: Life is not happening TO us, life is happening THROUGH us. We don’t HAVE to be a victim of circumstances, unless of course we choose to be. Our perspective about life is shaping our outer reality.

When people start to take life too seriously or start to become paralyzed by events that are happening to them, they forget how powerful they really are. We have the power to change our perspective at any point in time and therefore change how life appears.

We actually have the power to set our own rules to our own particular game of life and change how our life looks.

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Here’s how it works: Our beliefs about life shape our outer reality and set the rules of the game. The Universe (or God whichever you choose to call it) is our co-creator in our game. It is constantly trying to prove its existence to us by giving us outward affirmation of our beliefs about it.

If we believe life is hard, we are unlucky or nothing good ever happens to us, then the universe says, “Great! You believe life is hard and you are unlucky? I will give you circumstances that prove to you how powerful you and I are. I will give you circumstances that make your life hard and show how unlucky you are.”

However, if we believe life is amazing and things always work out for us and that there is a positive in every seemingly negative circumstance, the universe proves this to us as well. It is always matching us, and showing us what powerful co-creators we can be, by giving us exactly what we truly believe and what we expect.

In theory it sounds very easy, but a problem comes when we have underlying or unconscious belief systems that we may not even be aware are there.
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It is very common for most people to be holding on to some limiting beliefs about life that they have no idea they even have, which is consequently making their life game harder than it needs to be.

If you are not pleased by the way your particular game of life is going, here are some of the more common unconscious beliefs that many people have that they may not have addressed, and some daily mantras and affirmations to do in order to re-program our thoughts and consequently change the rules of our game:

1. Do I feel deserving?

This is a big one. If we don’t truly, TRULY believe we deserve to be successful, or fall in love or being living the life of our dreams, the universe cannot manifest it for us. We must believe we deserve the best in order to receive the best.

When you meditate picture in your mind being the person who has all the things you could ever want, maybe it’s your dream job, your dream spouse or living in your dream home. Does it feel comfortable or does it feel completely unbelievable or even uncomfortable to picture yourself so happy?

If it’s the latter it may mean you don’t truly feel deserving. Make your daily mantra, “I deserve (insert whatever you want, whether it be love, success, abundance etc…).

2. Do I TRULY think things are working out for the best? Or is there still a part of me that worries that my whole life is falling apart before my eyes?

Sometimes things happen to us that are unplanned. Either we can be convinced that it’s the worst thing ever, in which case we sit in resistance and end up blocking the sunshine behind the “cloud”, or we can always believe it’s for the best… EVEN if it’s not what we had planned.

If you are believing in your fear instead of trusting the universe’s timing you may miss out on all the good things that are coming to you because of the situation at hand. Make your daily mantra, “All is well. Everything is always working out in my favor.”

3. Do I believe it will be hard to make my dreams come true? Or do I believe amazing opportunities will come to me?

You make the rules! So why not picture opportunities and magical events and miraculous circumstances coming TO you? Believe in magic and the universe will start to put you in the right places at the right time.

When you start noticing tiny miracles, and synchronicities happening to you, show your gratitude that the universe is giving you the proof that your beliefs are in fact starting to manifest, but pay attention. Some synchronicities will be big and some will be smaller. Make your daily mantra, “Amazing things happen to me. I manifest miracles.”

4. Do I place blame on others or do I understand that everything that happens to me, I have consciously or unconsciously invited into my life experience for a reason?

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So many of us get stuck in the blame game. Anytime we feel sadness, anger, frustration etc… we point the finger outside of ourselves and blame another for making us feel a certain way. But no one can MAKE us feel any way. Our feelings are responses generated by us based on what we believe and expect other people to act like.

We can use our feelings constructively by asking ourselves “What does my reaction to them teach me about myself?” Or, “Where am I attached to my sense of self in this situation that is making me feel offended or upset?”

When we look at everything in the terms that we invited it into our experience, we feel empowered and waste less time focused outside and instead deal with our internal selves, which will make us not only love ourselves unconditionally but we stop believing we are victims of other people’s behavior.

Make your daily mantra, “I love myself no matter what. I love myself unconditionally”

5. Can I find the fun or silliness in almost any situation?

Many people these days get stressed about the tiniest things. They get worked up in their head about things that they have to do months from now, or whether or not people are mad at them, or did they say the wrong thing in their business meeting.

People can literally worry themselves sick about things they have no control over in the present moment. When we believe that nothing is ever as serious as people seem to make it out to be, we actually see that 99% of “problems” work themselves out whether or not we worried about them or not.

As the Dalai Lama says “If it can be solved, there is no need to worry, and if it can’t be solved, worry is of no use.” Make your daily mantra, “Life is an amazing experience, only good things come to me.”

Life can be a fun game or it can be all doom and gloom. The amazing thing is we have the absolute power to set our player mode on “easy”, “moderately hard”, or “difficult” and we can choose to change our settings at any time.

As for me, I will choose “easy, fun, and exciting” as the settings on my game of life. What do you choose?

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