When it’s time for something new, you will feel it. You will feel a desire to let go, to shed layers, to move, to re-create. You will know because there will be subtle shifts all around you. You will release the old because you are really clearing the path for what’s ahead. Trust the process. Know that life does not take from us anything unless there is something else imminently awaiting its replacement.
~ Brianna Wiest
When it’s Time for Something New, You will Feel It
There will be a Time, That we’ll be Afraid of Welcoming People into our Lives
The Fear Of Getting Attached
There will be a time, that we’ll be afraid of welcoming people into our lives. We’ll be scared of letting people in and get attached with them. The reason is our fear of suffering the pain of letting go. And the first and the most basic thing that we’ll think of doing to protect ourselves is to stay away from the people we’re afraid of getting attached- which is so hard because it is equivalent to avoiding the privilege of becoming happy. And there’s a thing that will worsen it; we will be caught in the middle of choosing which pain to endure; which pain can we stand better- the pain caused by unhappiness and loneliness, or the pain that we know, nobody will ever ve strong enough to stand against it- the pain of letting go.
~ Jerico Silvers
Compliment Him, Don’t Just Wait for Him to Compliment You
Compliment him, don’t just wait for him to compliment you. Smile at him when he’s not looking and kiss his forehead just because you can. Hold his hand first instead of waiting for him to grab yours. Kiss him when the night is over, maybe he’s nervous. When walking beside him, hug his arm – he doesn’t have to be the one to wrap his arms around you first. Just because you assume he’s supposed to lead everything, doesn’t mean that’s how it’s going to be. It doesn’t always have to be the guy first. He needs love and support just like you do. Love him the way you want him to love you. Just because he’s a guy doesn’t mean he doesn’t need reassurance, tell him how you feel even if it doesn’t fir the conversation. Say you love him first and hug him when he’s being distant. Cuddle him in bed instead of turning over and waiting for him to react. When and if you ever argue say sorry first just, so he knows you’re not mad anymore and you want to work things out with him. Petty arguments are never worth the negative energy. Continuously let him know he’s important to you. He is yours, give him the world.
~ Unknown
You Don’t Ever have to Tolerate People who Treat you Poorly
You don’t ever have to tolerate people who treat you poorly. It doesn’t matter if it’s a friend, a family member, or a partner. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them for or how nice they may have been to you in the past, you’re allowed to call people out on their abusing behavior. You’re allowed to set boundaries about what you are and are not willing to tolerate. You’re allowed to vocalize how their abuse makes you feel. You’re allowed to share those feelings and experiences with other people. And if necessary, you’re allowed to leave and distance yourself.
~ Daniell Koepke
The Only Thing that Matters is How Much You Love
The only thing that matters is how much you love. In the end. it doesn’t matter what your body looks like, how successful your career is, how big your house is, how advanced your yoga practice is, or what your bank statement says. Let me repeat this: “the only thing that matters is how much you love. Your purpose on this earth is to love. And love is a two-way street. We give, we get. With love, we will turn this crazy world around.
~ Unknown
