3 Life Paths of the Twin Flame Connection

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” ~ Dr. Seuss

Twin flame partnerships have recently come to the fore as the new must-have spiritual relationship. In hearing about it, we may turn to our partners and ask, is this who I’ve been sitting next to for the last few years? Hoorah!

But in many ways the twin flame connection is deeply misunderstood. Our Hollywood upbringings; those that have been drip-feeding us smooch ever since that day we first set our eyes upon the silver screen have in actual fact been heavily misleading, and the path may not be romantic at all.

The twin flame connection is the one we experience in our last incarnation on the lower dimensions. It’s a connection that propels us – violently, forcefully and even painfully – forward into our superhuman and genius-like potentials. And to get to those crystalline caves we often need catalysts that may not turn out to be as sugar-sweet as we first imagined.


Life has a sense of humour, and our twin flames may actually take the form of an abusive lover, friend, fleeting meeting with a stranger on a long train journey, or even a much loved pet. In fact, it’s the soul-mates and karmic partnerships we may find ourselves having more fun with.

Yet, the ones that catapult us into ourselves in a forceful and provocative manner are most certainly the twin flame. And that my friends, is the one we will remember on our death beds.

Here are three potential pathways of the twin flame, and how they each manifest their own individual gifts to humanity:

The creative catalyst

A dramatic and often violent relationship has fuelled many a twin flame relationship residing in the upper echelons of the third dimension. That is, the upper (or inner) dimensions of genius.

These types of relationships have triggered some of the greatest works of fiction, scientific breakthroughs and greatest political manifestos of all (known) time. Those works of art that history still champions, usually informing some cultural canon or other. However, these relationships more often than not belong to the painful end of the love spectrum.

Realizing that losing the greatest love of all time will spawn your greatest creative heights as a human being is heartbreaking to say the least, and the brightest of stars have harnessed these raw emotions to create truly magnificent things.

By harnessing the darkest of emotions these people have increased their receptivity to source energy and transformed the separation with their partners into a reunion with God. By doing this they have transcended the illusion of ‘the one’ that operates in the lower dimensions, whilst accessing raw creative dialogues with their higher selves.

The creative’s twin flame triggered their access to these inner states by providing a great love who was essentially bad for them; propelling them further into unhealthy lifestyles and extremes of contrast on the road of polarity.

It isn’t for everyone and generally ‘messengers’; higher dimensional beings born voluntarily in the lower dimensions go through this in order to deliver works of art that lift the entire planet’s consciousness with a ripple of divine (but essentially materialistic) creativity in order to aid humanity’s ascension.

WARNING: When on this path it can be easy to get lost in ‘ego’, or at least the illusion of it.

The charitable catalyst

The point of the charitable catalyst however, is to release us from ego. These twin flames aid the receiver to transcend all past hurts and family karma so that they can start again. By transcending past patterns energetically by forgiving them, the ‘lost’ twin raises their vibration and opens the gateway to welcome in the reflection of their higher selves; that is, their twin flame.

Like an angel from heaven, these people usually come delivered in a surprising package; perhaps a gender or degree of beauty different to what we were expecting (they may even have a terrible disability that will question our attitudes considerably or dramatically change our lifestyles).

Together as a team, the charitable twins gain access to their compassion consciousness and dedicate their lives to altruism. This may be protecting endangered animals, setting up a children’s home, travelling to and settling in another country and building villages or campaigning against conglomerates that are threatening the planet.

The contentment catalyst

Twin flames who meet after a time of intense drama in their lives; for example a string of abusive relationships or ones that reflect the participant’s desire to find themselves or a missing fragment of their soul usually desire to find contentment with their partner.

This isn’t to say they don’t do great things together. These twins’s focus may be raising children outside the 3D matrix or building an intentional community of like-minded people around them in the form of a tribe.

Whatever the goal is for these twins, they seek to enjoy life and when they’re together everyone around them finds themselves smiling. These twins have an infectious energy together, and it’s one which spreads like wildfire, raising consciousness instantly.

By putting out their good vibrations, contentment twins like to celebrate life; sharing wholesome and nutritious foods, making music together, or teaching wellness such as yoga or meditation.

So, which life path do you find yourself in? Perhaps the creative, heartbroken and shaken to the core by this new buy inaccessible love? Or perhaps it’s the surprising package, the person who changed your entire life and wrenched you from the shallows into your true divine purpose? Life really is getting interesting isn’t it? Good luck and get ready to move mountains.

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Lauren Simpson-Green, who has had quite a few life-affirming spiritual experiences already, now passes her days trying to master one of the most challenging and rewarding spiritual experiences of all; being a mother to two children. Based in Devon, UK, she spends the rest of her time working on a children's book, practising yoga and making wool fairies and gnomes for her daughter's school fayres.
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