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4 Hard Truths That Will Jolt You Awake

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“The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off.” ~ Gloria Steinem

Are you tired of floating around in that pink goop of the Matrix? Are you ready to slough off the illusion like it was an old hat? Has the White Rabbit been too fast for you so far?

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If you are reading this article, you are here to wake up. Here are five ways to slow that white rabbit down so you can catch up.

1) Money is a hoax

“The Western worldview says, in essence, that technological progress is the highest value and that we were born to consume, to endlessly use and discard natural recourses, other species, gadgets, toys, and often, each other.

The most highly prized freedom is the right to shop. It’s a world of commodities, not entities, and economic expansion is the primary measure of progress.

Competition, taking, and hoarding are higher values than cooperation, sharing, and gifting. Profits are valued over people, money over meaning, entitlement over justice, “us” over “them.” This is the most dangerous addiction in the world, not only because of its impact on humanity but because it is rapidly undermining the natural systems that sustain the biosphere.” ~ Bill Plotkin

It is not the more evolved aspect of ourselves that tricks us into thinking that we need money to survive; it’s the less evolved aspect of ourselves that does the tricking. With our advanced technologies we imagine that we know the way the world works, when, for the most part, we have forgotten how everything is connected.

Until we can relearn “a language older than words,” and once again engage in a healthy dialogue with nature and the cosmos, we will continue to be tricked by the less evolved aspects of ourselves. The more awareness we bring to this extremely complicated cognitive dissonance, the more possible it will be to achieve an ecologically, economically, and socially sustainable world.

As it stands, however, the Federal Reserve is a house of cards guarded by a red herring. Money is the opiate of the masses, and the masses are too busy spending it on worthless crap to get to know each other as healthy individuals, let alone as a healthy community. We have become Pavlov Dogs, and money is our dinner bell.

But money was never meant to be horded, or even amassed, it was meant to circulate as a way of uplifting the community. And yet here we are, hoarding and amassing, while our communities are in unhealthy disarray. It’s high time we abandoned the force-fed shibboleth that having more money makes us better people. It doesn’t. Being healthy, compassionate and moral is what makes us better people.

2) Debt is fiction

“There are two ways to conquer and enslave a nation. One is by the sword. The other is by debt.” ~ John Adams

friedrich-nietzsche-quotesUnfortunately our nation has been enslaved by debt. Our current system is not an economic system at all, but an ecocidal system; an intrinsic obsolescence of conspicuous consumption. It’s a grave misfortune that efficiency, sustainability, and preservation are the enemies of our socioeconomic system. This has got to be the most bizarre delusion in the history of human thought, a retarded Ponzi scheme en masse.

But it’s difficult to get people to understand something when money, and especially debt, prevents them from understanding it. Instead of ownership, give us strategic access. Instead of equity, give us equality. Instead of one-track-minded profit, give us open-minded people.

Instead of unsustainable monetary-based economics, give us a sustainable resource-based economy, which is basically the scientific method applied to ecological and social concerns.

As tough as it is to hear, nature is a dictatorship. We can either listen to it and fall into harmony or deny it and suffer. Ask yourself this question by Fleet & Lasn: “When the economic system fails, will we know how to behave, how to act, how to appreciate, how to value, how to survive, how to be and how to love in a world that no longer defines relations by money?”

3) Media is manipulation

“Any dictator would admire the uniformity and obedience of the U.S. media.” ~ Noam Chomsky

Media has always been an effective method for manipulating people. We are social creatures who are also psychological creatures. This combination makes us unwittingly vulnerable to the power of suggestion. As it stands, media has been our Achilles Heel.

These days the “news” we receive from corporate media is more likely to be disinformation. Skepticism is a must when reading or viewing the information provided by these outlets.

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The key: Don’t believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. Analyze the Kool Aide before you swallow it. Even then, be prepared to vomit it back up at the first sign of deception. Remain circumspect and question all authority. They don’t have our best interest at heart. They only want our money, and to remain powerful.

Like Wendell Berry wrote in the Unsettling of America, “People whose governing habit is the relinquishment of power, competence, and responsibility, make excellent spenders. They are the ideal consumers. By inducing in them little panics of boredom, powerlessness, sexual failure, mortality, paranoia, they can be made to buy virtually anything that is “attractively packaged.””

We are slowly becoming more aware of corporate media lying to us. But they know we know they’re lying to us. And we know they know we know they’re lying to us. With enough inertia, this debacle of a process just continues until we are eventually lying to ourselves. And here we are.

Like the great Baruch Spinoza once surmised, “The supreme mystery of despotism, its prop and stay, is to keep men in a state of deception, and cloak the fear by which they must be held in check, so that they will fight for their servitude as if for salvation.” And here we are, unless we decide to wake up.

4) Government is a corporation

Here’s the thing: we do not live in a democracy, and we probably

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never really have. A prestigious Princeton study recently concluded that we live in an oligarchy: rule by a few individuals. And these individuals just so happen to be plutocrats, making this particular flavor of oligarchy a plutocracy: rule by the rich.

The problem is that money itself has become an immoral agent within an otherwise amoral system that praises itself as moral.

Ask yourself: do you wish to live out harried lives of nine-to-five slavery, giving up your days to heartless corporations that don’t give a damn about anything except making money, or do you wish to live a happy life of loving compassion, doing what you enjoy, in spite of plutocracy, oligarchy, and tyranny?

The Occupy Movement succeeded in shifting the tenor and shape of debate in the world, but we must not rest on our laurels. Trickle-down economics DOES NOT WORK! Austerity economics DOES NOT WORK! Corporations are NOT people. Money does NOT equal speech. It’s a trap. If we don’t get big money out of politics then everything we want to do will be hopeless.

We need to be smarter with our mobilization tactics for the change and allocation of power within our society. So far the security and surveillance state has boxed us in, like the great MLK Jr. said, “Those who love peace must learn to organize as effectively as those who love war.”

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6 Signs You May Be Wasting Your Life

“The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time.” ~ Jack London

Life can be tricky. There are traps galore, and most of them we are probably not even aware of. None of us seeks to waste our lives, it just seems to happen.

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, but it’s never so simple. Here are six signs that you may be wasting your life. If you find that a few of them apply to you, don’t fret. Have a sense of humor about it. Laugh at yourself. And then pull yourself out of the trap and jump-start your life. Sometimes you have to wreck your life in order to fix it.

1) You’re unhealthy: mind, body, and soul

“The most dangerous phrase in the language is, ‘We’ve always done it this way.’” ~ Grace Hopper

If you worry too much and you tend to dwell on the past and do a little too much of #2 in this article, you may be unhealthy in mind. If you never exercise and you are not eating healthy food and moderating unhealthy food, you may be unhealthy in body.

If you never practice mindfulness or meditation and you never embrace nature and solitude, you may be unhealthy in soul.

Nikola Tesla was correct when he said “Our entire biological system, the brain (the body, the soul), and the Earth itself, work on the same frequencies.”

It’s our responsibility to tune our biology and our consciousness to resonate with the fundamental harmonics of the universe. First and foremost: in order to have a solid foundation from which to live a meaningful life, get yourself healthy.

2)You are overly negative

“The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.” ~ William James

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“Choose” is the keyword in the above quote by William James. This is a big one. Happiness is indeed a choice. If you’re overly negative, generally glass-is-half-empty, and complain too much, then you are choosing poorly.

Negative thoughts or emotions can trigger an endless cycle of negative thought patterns playing on loop in our brain throughout the day.

There’s a wealth of joy to be savored in this life.

Start savoring it. Begin now. With enough practice those negative thoughts will fade away, and even when things go horribly wrong you’ll appreciate how they can make you stronger, and therefore happier, in the long run.

This is so important to living a meaningful life. Like the water molecule experiments by Dr Masaru Emoto shows: positive thoughts lead to healthy molecules leads to a healthy body leads to a healthy mind leads to a healthy soul.

Think positive. Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst, and then make the best of it either way.

3) You don’t challenge yourself enough

“It is not the path which is the difficulty. It is the difficulty which is the path.” ~ Søren Kierkegaard

If you never leave your comfort zone, you never travel, and you always have a reason or excuse for not trying something new, then you may be wasting your life.

The universe is an amazing place. There is so much to learn, so much to experience. If you’ve closed yourself off to most of it, then your life will reflect that.

If you don’t read enough or you only read one book over and over again, swearing off all other forms of knowledge, then you are closed-off and you’re not challenging yourself enough. Get out there and embrace the world. Hug the hurricane.

Dance with the apocalypse. Stretch your comfort zone until your bursting with fear and trepidation, and then move back to your “safe place” and heal. Keep doing that over and over again, stretching more and more, and you will grow in ways that will stagger your soul and make your heart say “wow!”

4) You let others tell you how to live

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“Angry people want you to see how powerful they are. Loving people want you to see how powerful you are.” ~ Chief Red Eagle

There’s nothing wrong with good advice. But remember: it’s up to you whether it is good advice or not. Nobody knows you like you do. Nobody else has your unique memories.

You are, or should be, the driving force in your life. If you are allowing somebody else to drive your life, then you may be wasting it. Question all authority, especially those telling you how to live. Question this article even.

Go out there and figure it out for yourself. And that’s the point, really, figuring it out for yourself. Take the “good” advice where you can get it, but be circumspect. You’re always your own boss, even when you’re giving your power over to others.

You can always take it back. It’s up to you. Even if you grew up in an unhealthy or damaging situation, “You are personally responsible for becoming more ethical than the society you grew up in.” ~ Eliezer Yudkowsky

5) You don’t feel worthy

“We become more worthy the more we bend our minds to the impersonal. We become better as we take in the universe, thinking more about the largeness that is and less about the smallness that is us.” ~ Rebecca Goldstein

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Self-worth is both one of the easiest and one of the most difficult things we can choose to have. It usually takes courage, because it usually asks that we “act” worthy even before we “feel” worthy. If you find you’re feeling worthless often, then it’s time to act worthy.

Trick yourself into higher cosmic resonance. Jump-start your soul with an act of worth that will cause your comfort zone to quake like it was drawn over a fault line.

Similar to feeling negative (#2), acting worthy is a choice. If you practice acting worthy enough, then eventually you will feel worthy and won’t even have to act. Have fun with it. It’s like playing a game of reverse-psychology on yourself. Sometimes you have to fool the inner-fool that is telling you you’re unworthy by hoodwinking it into a trap of worthiness.

6) You spend too much time worried about money

“Do not feel envious of the happiness of those who live in a fool’s paradise, for only a fool will think that is happiness.” ~ Bertrand Russell

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If you think work is the only thing that matters or that the world owes you something, then you may be wasting your life by worrying too much about money.

Money is perhaps the biggest distraction to living a meaningful life that there is. This is mostly because of cultural conditioning and a system built upon fundamentally unsustainable principles.

Our culture breeds greediness at its core. Most of us are raised believing that the almighty buck will somehow save us, or that money is the key to happiness, or even that money will bring us love.

This is unfortunate, but it is our responsibility to see through the smoke and mirrors. In fact, money can only ever be a tool to leverage what’s good about life in the first place. Problems arise when we become a tool for making money, or when we hoard it immoderately.

Unfortunately our unsustainable system has inadvertently conditioned us into being tools that make money. But it’s time we reversed that conditioning. Use the tool. Don’t be a tool.

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Probing the Psyche for a Peaceful Mind

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“All emotions are pure which gather you and lift you up; that emotion is impure which seizes only one side of your being and so distorts you” ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

The human psyche refers to the forces in an individual that influence thought, behaviour and personality. Carl Jung said, “The Psyche is the greatest of all cosmic wonders and the “sin qua non” (crucial ingredient) of the world as an object.”

Psyche is of profound importance to create our experience, of ourselves and the world. We cannot have an experience of the external world without the presence of the psyche, and hence, it is essential to observe it’s functioning.

If we are disassociated from the psyche then it makes us susceptible to look for answers outside of ourselves. When it comes to the inner realms of psyche, there are five types of misconceptions which act as hindrances to achieve peace of mind.

These are explained in detail in the book “Mind in Indian Philosophy” that draws most of its excerpts from the ancient manuscript “Yoga Bhasya and Yoga Sutras”. These misconceptions holds back the Purusa (self that encompasses the universe) from knowing its authentic nature.

Listed below are the five types of misconceptions ~

Ignorance

In Buddhism, ignorance is considered as a primary hindrance to wisdom. A human being ignores the thoughtful invasions of the soul.

We get entangled in the never-ending web of confusion, and not making an effort to clear that confusion is an act of ignorance towards the self. Our sufferings, guilt, anxiety, nervousness, exists because we fail to get to the roots of these emotions.

Lack of vision and inability to understand the process of the universe falls under ignorance. Most of us live our lives without having an understanding of the self, and it’s this lack of awareness that leads to instability and turbulences in our head.

Egoism

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The ego is something made up by the mind. It’s the sense of self — a flash of “I” or “me” that we believe in and cling to. Hurting someone’s ego means disapproving with their notion of their personality. Ego leads to attachment, aversion and ignorance. To end the suffering, we must end our desires and let go of the ego.

Ego is something that has been constructed, and therefore something that can be reconstructed and reshaped in whichever way we want. If it is inevitable to have an ego we should resort to shape it to our convenience. To see it as a tool and not as a master.

In Plato’s Phaedo, he said, “And the mind’s power of thought is strongest when it is distracted by neither sight nor hearing, pain nor pleasure, nor anything sensual, but is, as far as it can be alone by itself.”

Attachment

“Attachment is the root of suffering.” ~ Buddha.

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Being attached to things and people means to give them unrealistic attributes, to perceive them as being able to give us everlasting happiness and to see them as unchanging forms. In attachment, the unconscious self is constantly seeking validation from the outer world.

We believe, when we are attached to things or people, that they are the cause of our happiness. This approach simply leads to neediness, dependency, and self-centeredness. The only thing real is a solitary being.

Happiness, as they say, comes from within and isn’t dependent on external factors. The Buddha said in the Dhammapada, “Attachment arises from (wrong) conceptions, so know them as attachment’s root. Avoid conceptualizations and attachment will not arise.”

Aversion

Aversion dwells in a pain that is deleterious in nature. In the deeper understanding of the psyche, pleasure and pain are two branches diverging from the same root. That which is pleasurable can convert into painful.

Attachment and Aversion affect the psyche in the same way, they erode the self-esteem in surreptitious ways.

Swami Vivekananda said, “We find pleasure in very queer things, but the principle remains, wherever we find pleasure, there we are attached.”

Clinging to Life

Clinging to life is having fear of death. The reality is that the spirit is eternal in nature and death is spirit leaving the physical body. People wish to live in the physical body for the longest time, dwell in fear of death and abandon the self from living in the moment.

One needs to embrace the fact that death is inevitable. Observing, investigating, understanding and eliminating these particular hindrances of the mind will lead to a better understanding of the self that ultimately takes one on a journey to attaining a consistent peaceful state of mind.

“The human psyche shows that each individual is an extension of all of existence.” ~ Stanislav Grof

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Eco-consciousness and the Rise of the Eco Warrior

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“Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life. So aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something.” –Henry David Thoreau

This article is about Nature versus Anti-nature. It’s about Natural Order versus the Great Lie. And it is about how to choose the right side, that is, the healthier side. What is anti-nature? It is the runaway train that we call industrial civilization, which is systematically destroying the world under the false flag of “progress.”

What is the Great Lie? It is the propaganda that has been shoved down our throats all our lives, set in motion by a plutocratic regime that has a greedy stranglehold on the vital resources of the planet. Like Peter Joseph said, “We live in a plutocracy not a democracy, and the only true power is behind the curtain, not in front. The financial and business powers not only own and control this country they own and control the entire planet; and no, it’s not a conspiracy theory. It’s a value-system disorder.”

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We inhale what trees exhale, and trees inhale what we exhale. So you see, the tree and us are one.

It’s high time we changed this exploitative value-system. We live in a world where unsustainable civilizations slowly, and violently, deplete the environment of its vitality, all because we’re preached that we have to keep buying things in order to survive. We have to keep consuming beyond our needs. We have to “keep up with the Joneses.”

We must must must have a J.O.B. or we’re a degenerate, or a dirty hippie, or somehow evil. This is all part of the Great Lie. Like Derrick Jensen wrote in Endgame: The Problem of Civilization, “Those in power have made it so we have to pay simply to exist on the planet. We have to pay for a place to sleep, and we have to pay for food. If we don’t, people with guns come and force us to pay. That’s violent… The needs of the natural world are more important than the needs of the economic system.” The violence must stop.

And the Eco Warriors are not waiting around for some bloated windbag in power to make a pathetic attempt at change through petitions and corrupt elections. No, the Eco Warriors are daring to take the wheel of this runaway train and drive it right off its unsustainable tracks.

When a nation favors competition, taking, and hoarding over cooperation, sharing, and gifting, it is approaching spiritual death. When profits are valued over people, money over meaning, entitlement over justice, and ‘us’ over ‘them,’ then we have given into the great lie: that everything is separate and not connected. That everything is a product. That everything has a price-tag on it.

We need to put the “eco” back into economy. It must be people before profits, equality before equity, and the heart before money. We need to return to the ethic of reciprocity: to the Golden Mean, the middle-way, and the Golden Ratio. Otherwise we’re just floundering aimlessly in an immoral, unhealthy, unsustainable system of governance.

We need to ask questions like the wise eco-feminist, Starhawk, asked, “How does my spiritual practice and daily life serve the earth? How does my spiritual practice and daily life affect the poorest third of humanity? How will my spiritual practice and daily life affect the generations to come in the future?”

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When the blockbuster movie Avatar was released back in 2009, there was astrange epidemic called “Avatar Blues” that showed a rise in depression and suicidal thoughts. The pundits tried to write it all off as just “utopian wishful thinking,” or “wanting to escape reality.” But I disagree. I think the depression was a genuine response to the giant metaphor the movie represented: that Pandora (Earth) is being destroyed by a greedy corporation that will obtain the “precious” resource unobtainium (oil) at all costs.

It was like a slap in the face. Toruk Makto, the movie’s hero, was a symbol, or archetype, for unified nature against ecocide. Here on planet Earth, Eco Warriors are the personification of this archetype, whereas mega-corporations represent the ecocidal impulse. Just replace Pandora with Earth, unobtainium with Gold/diamonds/oil, the militarized mining company with overreaching corporations, and Toruk Makto with Eco-warrior and the metaphor is complete.

We need a Toruk Makto, a force of unified nature. Hell, we need thousands of them. Like the great Carl Sagan said, “Our species needs, and deserves, a citizenry with minds wide awake and a basic understanding of how the world works.”

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As it stands, we have a critical decision to make: proactive responsibility or apathetic indifference? The state perpetuates apathetic indifference. Indeed, it conditions and propagandizes it to no end. We’re either a victim of this propaganda or we’re turning the tables on it. If we wish to transform our apathy into empathy, then we should assume an Eco Warrior disposition.

If we wish to transform our indifference into proactive courage, then we should assume an Eco Warrior temperament. If we wish to transform our unsustainable irresponsibility into sustainable responsibility, then we should assume an Eco Warrior perspective.

Sometimes this means acting amoral in order to bring morality back to an otherwise immoral system. One must act amoral in order to transform the immoral back into the moral. It’s like Isaac Asimov wrote, “Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what’s right.”

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“I rebel; therefore we exist.” – Albert Camus

Indeed, the amoral agent’s way of taking this world seriously is by disrupting it and then giving it a new form. We amorally rebel; therefore morality exists. In an immoral world we must oppose it amorally in order to compel it to moralize itself. The Eco Warrior is precisely the kind of amoral agent needed to fight against the immoral infrastructure that is destroying the world today.

Let others have their moral high ground; let’s stick with the amoral middle ground and change the world for the better. Like Bertrand Russell suggested, “Find more pleasure in intelligent dissent than in passive agreement, for, if you value intelligence as you should, the former implies a deeper agreement than the latter.” Or from Clarissa Pinkola Estes, “If you have ever been called defiant, incorrigible, forward, cunning, insurgent, unruly, or rebellious, you’re on the right track. If you have never been called these things, there is yet time.”

Despite what you may think, fierceness, fearlessness and ruthlessness are all possible without resorting to violence. So it is with being and becoming an Eco Warrior. The world doesn’t need more trigger-happy militarized crackpots with nationalism and patriotism scrambling their brains into exploitable soup. It needs compassionate Eco-warriors with the courage to challenge the powers-that-be, while also bringing tonality to an otherwise atonal world, using progressively sustainable solutions that show how a new world is possible.

Like Derrick Jensen wrote, “We cannot hope to create a sustainable culture with any but sustainable souls… Love does not imply pacifism.” Only you can transform yourself into a sustainable soul. Tap into your inner Toruk Makto. Be fierce. Be fearless. Be ruthless. Be an Eco Warrior.

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7 Things Self-actualized People Don’t Do

“Human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them. Life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.” ~ Gabriel Garcí­a Márquez

The term “self-actualization” was originally coined by the theorist Kurt Goldstein for the motive of realizing one’s full potential, but was brought fully to light by Abram Maslow in his hierarchy of needs theory of human development.

Essentially self-actualization is the prominent feeling of being fully alive and aware of what it means to be a meaning-bringing creature in an otherwise meaningless universe.

It is the self-realization of one’s individuated maturity in balance with an interdependent spirit. Self-actualized people have a healthy perception of reality and practice healthy habits.

Here are seven things self-actualized people don’t do in order to achieve their most authentic self.

1) They don’t fear change

“Nature will not let us stay in any one place for too long. She will let us stay just long enough to gather the experience necessary to the unfolding and advancement of the soul. This is a wise provision, for should we stay there too long, we would become too set, too rigid, too inflexible. Nature demands change in order that we may advance.” ~ Ernest Holmes

Self-actualized people realize that there is no permanence. Everything changes. And that’s the beauty of it.

It’s because things change, because things begin, because things grow and blossom and wilt and die and grow again that there is such a thing as beauty to begin with. It is exactly because things end that things are so beautiful while they’re here.

Everything is more precious to the self-actualized person precisely because everything is fleeting and transitory. They don’t fear change, they change fear. They are flexible and adept at adapting to the many vicissitudes of life.

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2.) They don’t waste energy on things they can’t control

“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” ~ Deborah Reber

Self-actualized people understand that not everything is under their control. And that’s okay. For the same reason that you put an oxygen mask on yourself before a child, you need to discover a Locus of Control before attempting to control the locusts, the “locusts” being a metaphor for “everything else.”

Self-actualized people realize that they can’t control people. They can only teach people and hope those people learn. They can’t control fate.

They do, however, understand that they have control over their attitude, and choose to place their energy into adapting their attitude to a situation rather than complaining about how things are not working out.

They discover that by changing their attitude they are more likely to create a positive outcome. But even if they can’t, at least they have the satisfaction of having tried something positive.

3) They don’t feel unworthy

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“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” ~ Aristotle

Self-actualized people never feel sorry for themselves. There’s no point. They realize that self-pity is poison. Worthiness is a matter of attitude, and they have the right attitude. They make being worthy a habit, and they practice it every single day. They don’t worry about how other people treat them.

They are not concerned with circumstance. They are only concerned with how they manage their own worth in regard to others and to circumstance. They understand that nobody else gets to dictate their own worth. Worthiness is a choice, and they have simply chosen to be worthy.

4) They don’t fear taking risks

“I have been impressed with the urgency of doing. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Being willing is not enough; we must do.” ~ Leonardo da Vinci

Self-actualized people understand that living a full life requires stepping outside of their comfort zone. There’s adventure on the other side of those walls we put up in order to maintain our comfort, and self-actualized people are determined to leap those walls in pursuit of higher fulfillment.

They seek to test the limits of the human spirit. They are not reckless or foolish risk-takers, however. They are calculative and circumspect about their risk-taking. They have a proper orientation between fear and shame.

They can extend the limits of what’s possible without fear, because they are proactive and courageous about transforming boundaries into horizons.

5) They don’t have a sense of entitlement

“Don’t go around saying the world owes you a living. The world owes you nothing. It was here first.” ~ Mark Twain

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Self-actualized people don’t feel the world owes them anything. What they get, they earn. If they should get something they didn’t earn, they are appreciative and never take it for granted.

They don’t just assume that other people will take care of them. Rather, they take care of themselves and “let the chips fall where they may.”

They don’t suffer from unhealthy expectations. They also don’t need immediate gratification, understanding that sometimes the best things in life take time to develop. They don’t resent the success of other people.

Instead, they are happy for other people, and tend to learn from both the successes and the mistakes of others.

6) They don’t see setbacks as “setbacks”

“Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.” ~ Bruce Lee

Self-actualized people seek opportunity in every obstacle. Every failed attempt can be used as a stepping stone for the next attempt. And no matter how many attempts it takes, self-actualized people don’t quit.

They don’t agonize over past mistakes. They don’t cling to the past. And they definitely don’t hold onto resentment. They are very present and centered, especially during setbacks. They understand that through mistakes they can become wise, but only if they learn from those mistakes.

But they also don’t make the same mistake over and over again. They make new mistakes, understanding that trial and error is the mother of all invention. They intuitively understand the meaning of the Zen proverb: “The obstacle is the path.”

7) They don’t let negative thoughts control them

“If you want to awaken all of humanity, then awaken all of yourself, if you want to eliminate the suffering in the world, then eliminate all that is negative in yourself. Truly, the greatest gift you have to give is that of your own self-transformation.” ~ Lao Tzu

Self-actualized people never assume the worst. Instead, they hope for the best and prepare for the worst. They know that they can adapt and overcome anything that comes their way.

They understand that negative thoughts can hijack their perspective if they allow them to, so they are ever-vigilant and cognizant of how their perception of reality is affecting reality. At the same time, they don’t resist the truth of reality.

If a situation is negative, or it is creating a negative emotion, they embrace the moment and the emotion and then they transform that emotion into a positive one, thereby transforming the situation into a positive one. They are also adept at transforming the negative energy of past traumas into positive energy for the present moment.

They have learned, as Sogyal Rinpoche teaches, “What we have to learn in both meditation and in life is to be free of attachment to the good experiences and free of aversion to the negative ones.”

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