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The Virtue of Eccentricity: Four Ways Eccentrics Are Essential

“Eccentricity has always abounded when and where strength of character has abounded; and the amount of eccentricity in a society has generally been proportional to the amount of genius, mental vigor, and moral courage which it contained. That so few now dare to be eccentric, marks the chief danger of the time.” ~ John Stuart Mill

In a world chock-full of conformists kowtowing to authority and praising tradition, the mere example of nonconformity is itself a service. Status quo junkies may whine. Custodians of convention may quibble.

be weirdNine-to-fivers addicted to the daily grind may blather empty platitudes like “get a job, you bum!” But the artistic eccentrics with misfit-hearts and rebel-souls are drawing a line in the sand, declaring to the all-too-conservative Confederacy of Dunces, “Stop trying to force our circular art into your square job! You need us. Despite yourself, our art has the potential to set you free.”

There is a virtue in eccentricity that overshadows mere conventionality. Especially when the current convention is one of conquer-control-consume-repeat, ad nauseum. When the modern day fix comes at the expense of the rest of the biosphere, perhaps it’s time to change the fix.

And it’s the outlaw jesters, on the fringes of convention, pushing comfort zones like eccentric desperados “ridin’ fences,” who are attempting to change this myopic social fixation by discovering ways to personalize their own art and showing by good, or even bad example, new ways of being in this world.

They understand, as Nietzsche did, that, “The secret of reaping the greatest fruitfulness and the greatest enjoyment from existence is to live dangerously.”

Indeed. If there is a virtue in eccentricity it lies within the ability to draw a line in the sand, to put ones foot down, and to declare to the status quo, the powers that be, or even God, “You can have your moral high ground; I’ll stick with my amoral middle ground, and astonish you all.”

Here are four ways eccentrics are essential toward changing the world for the better.

1) They are willing to take on a hostile status quo

“The secret of life is to appreciate the pleasure of being terribly, terribly deceived.” ~ Oscar Wilde

be wierd2Eccentrics are willing to take on the status quo in order to discover something meaningful beyond cultural norms. They deregulate societal limitations. They shatter narcissism into funhouse mirrors. They break spells by guillotining ignorance. They topple the tyranny of opinion.

They push envelopes into paper cuts that cut the stickler. They are willing to yank the too-lazy-spine from the back of the human soul. They unapologetically reek of rebellion and jest. And nothing can stand in their way because their eccentricity has set them free.

As such, they are willing to take on any and all comers because their humorous Tao-that-cannot-be-named subsumes the status quo.

If the status quo is saying “there’s no way,” the eccentric is too busy creating one to care. Creativity is their saving grace. Imagination is their escape. Humor is their providence. No amount of bad human laws or flimsy man-made rules can contain a truly free eccentric.

They’ll pick locks with their tongues if need be. They’ll melt down prison bars into colanders if they have to. Authority is too constricting to be worth a damn anyway. Authority deserves nothing more than mockery and parody in the face of its typical violence or intimidation.

Eccentrics epitomize satire, testing authoritarian boundaries with both words and actions. They are true Jesterados: bold outlaw clowns who are not afraid of the fear-pedaling, war-mongering, sycophantic hoards bred by an immoral and unjust state.

2) They are prepared to fail

“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” ~ Oscar Wilde

Failure, for the eccentric, is simply an alternative route, an unfamiliar way of navigating a sometimes too-familiar path. Failure doesn’t necessarily lead into a brick wall. Just as often it can be the very thing that breaks that wall down.

Like Zig Ziglar said, “Failure is a detour, not a dead-end street.”

Indeed. Stumbling blocks are just as important as stepping stones in the infinite game of Trial-and-Error. Broken hearts are sometimes what is needed in order to build a heart that can handle greatness.

With the right kind of eyes, catastrophe can be just as fortunate a prospect as success. And in some cases it is the only way to achieve a breakthrough.

As such, the authentic eccentric is willing to stand on the precipice, tempting the fates, hugging the hurricane, and thumb-wrestling the gods. She wears a cloak of holes, mocking failure itself. She knows that failure won’t last, nor will victory.

She stares into the abyss of human absurdity, and she laughs, laughs, laughs.

3) They offer their own lives as an experiment

“Live as if you were living a second time, and as though you had acted wrongly the first time.” ~ Viktor Frankl

True eccentrics are guinea pigs par excellence, giving up their own lives to reveal new ways of being in the world. They are open-minded, open-hearted, and open-souled. Their life is their canvas. They are vulnerable to interesting surprises, dizzying adventures, and prepared to receive gifts, such as beautiful trouble and terrible love, that most people wouldn’t know what to do with.

Like Piero Ferrucci said, “Beauty comes from knowing the world around us in unexpected ways. If we think we already know all we need to know, we only end up shut in a sterile, inert, unchanging world. No prison is more oppressive than that. Better to inhabit a world where we can see the new even in the old, the banal, and the rejected. No scenario could be more inspiring.”

The eccentric is busy deciphering the new from the old despite how complicated or tricky it may be.

They are rebel clowns and mischievous madcaps, daring desperados and puzzling pranksters. They toe the line between the real world and the otherworldly in order to create new worlds. They’re not just on the periphery, they are the periphery, transforming borderlines into skylines.

They take the following words of wisdom from Thoreau and run with it: “Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life. So aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something.”

4) They provide the essential service of furthering human flourishing

“To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

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Eccentrics consistently make moves toward radical understanding. Despite the unsustainable machinery, despite the grinding clockwork, despite the cogs that keep it all churning, the eccentric is the one strategically tossing in wrenches like catalysts for change.

Their art is amoral jest, deflating the idea of “the best” and replacing it with “what’s next?” They eccentrically crush out. They transform tragedy into comedy into destiny.

No amount of failure or success is too much for their polish, for the sandpaper of their humor, to smooth out into a Golden Mean. The current condition is propped up, kindled, and then burnt to ashes. In its place the Phoenix of the new arises. But first seeds must be planted in those ashes, and that has always been the job of the eccentric since time immemorial.

Through foolish wisdom, or wise tomfoolery, the eccentric shines like diamonds in dark times, or at least like coal being compressed by the weight of a billion mothballs. Through high-laughter their little black-sheep hearts beat darkly against the blinding light. They quench fire with wet fists.

They dare to transform themselves from dimwits into misfits into outwits, and then have the audacity to do it all over again, repeating the process, ad infinitum. They spell Namaste backwards, waiving from the periphery, where present meets future, proclaiming to all who dare to step foot on the jagged path, “Etsaman: the eccentric in me recognizes and honors the eccentric in you.”

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Tap into the Power of Lunar Energy with the Moon Salutation (Chandra Namaskar)

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“The moon does not fight. It attacks no one. It does not worry. It does not try to crush others. It keeps to its course, but by its very nature, it gently influences. What other body could pull an entire ocean from shore to shore? The moon is faithful to its nature and its power is never diminished.” ~ Ming-Dao Deng, Everyday Tao: Living with Balance and Harmony

Surya Namaskar, the sacred salutations to the Sun, is practised to express gratitude to the sun for sustaining life on this planet; its also a practice of honouring our masculine (sun) energy. But to create a balance in our practice, as advocated in Hatha yoga too, and to nurture the energy of the divine feminine, Chandra Namaskar or moon salutation helps to replenish our vital energy.

Literally translating to the ‘bowing down to the moon’, Chandra Namaskar is a quieting sequence that invites you to bow to and cultivate the moon’s soothing lunar energy. Just as Surya Namaskar stimulates and heats the body, Chandra Namaskar cools the body down, restoring energy & calming down the nervous system.

When we are feeling exhausted, overworked or low on energy, Chandra Namaskar can be practised to enjoy the opulence of feminine energy in the body.

Kristen Butera in his article, Chandra Namaskar: Celebrating the power of Moon says, “Each phase of the moon brings with it a special energy for that lunar cycle. Everyone knows the moon affects the tides of the oceans. We, as human beings are also made of water, and the same phases that affect the tides also have a deep impact on our bodies and minds. When we view our lives through this interactive lunar lens, we are empowered to explore ourselves in a very natural and powerful way.”

Benefits of Chandra Namaskar

Chandra Namaskar when coordinated with breathing opens up the flow in the system allowing an experience as soothing as the moonlight.

  • Moon salutation can be practised when a person is stressed, tired or fatigued. It immediately balances the energy and brings tranquillity in both mind and body.
  • Just as moon journeys through different phases, similarly, Chandra Namaskar benefits women in different phases of her reproductive life. From menstruation to pregnancy to menopause, the fertile creative energy created by Moon Salutation aids in removing blockages, calms the nervous system and reduces PMS as well.
  • Poses like Ardha Chandrasana or Crescent shaped moon pose, Hasta Uttanasana or Raised Arm pose , Bhujangasana or Cobra pose, opens up the heart center, allowing the practitioner to be more compassionate, empathetic and loving.
  • It opens the pelvic region, hip flexors, increases flexibility in the back, strengthens the core and improves lung capacity.
  • If you are practising Sun Salutation, it is advised to practice Moon Salutation as well, in order to bring about a complete harmony in the lunar and solar, feminine and masculine energy.

Steps for Chandra Namaskar

Like sun salutations there are many variations of the moon salutation sequence. Its important to move slowly at your own pace through each asana. Starting from the first image on the left and gradually move forward towards right side:

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Vajrasana or Thunder Bolt Pose

Sit on your heels with calves just under the thighs and place your hands on the thighs. Take deep breaths and gather yourself for the practice of moon salutation.

Shashankasana or Hare Pose A

In the same position, take a deep breath in and raise your hands above your head, extending the torso up like a string pulling you up from the top of your head.

Shashankasana or Hare Pose B

Exhale and bend forward, keeping the spine erect, place the forehead on the floor. Keep your arms straight with palms resting on the floor.

Bhujangasana or Cobra Pose

As you breathe in, keep your hands in the same position and lift your torso while keeping the entire lower body resting on the floor. The shoulder blades are down and the gaze upwards.

Adho Mukha Svanasana or Downward Dog Pose

Exhale and shift the torso backwards into downward dog. Both the hands stay where they are and the feet is in one line, forming an inverted V. The head stays between the hands and the gaze is fixated on the navel.

Ardha Chandrasana or Crescent-Shaped Moon Pose

Bring your left leg forward, as you simply breathe in. Now, bring the palms into prayer position overhead. The left foot is deeply rooted into the floor and the torso extends further while the back is arched more. The head stays between the hands and gaze is upwards towards the ceiling.

Padahastasana or Hand to Foot Pose

Exhale and bring the left foot forward in line with the right and go down from your waist, place the hands on either side of the feet. Try and touch your forehead to the knee. If you are a beginner or are unable to touch your hands to the floor or head to knee, don’t force yourself and stay where you are.

Hasta Uttanasana or Raised Arm Pose

As you inhale, rise up and lift your hands up, maintaining the prayer position and creating a gentle arch in the back. The gaze is upwards and the pelvis is pushed out slightly. Ensure the back is not swayed to the front but firm and the head is between both the arms.

Padahastasana or Hand to Foot Pose

Exhale and go down from your waist, place the hands on the ground and try and touch your forehead to the knee. If you are unable to touch your hands to the floor or head to knee, don’t force yourself and stay where you are.

Ardha Chandrasana or Crescent Shaped Moon Pose

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Inhale and take right leg back and perform the Crescent Shaped Moon pose as mentioned earlier.

Adho Mukhasavasana or Downward Dog Pose

Exhale and come in Downward dog while you perform the pose as mentioned earlier.

Bhujangasana or Cobra Pose

As you breathe in, keep your hands in the same position and lift your torso while keeping the entire lower body resting on the floor. The shoulder blades are down and the gaze upwards.

Shashankasana or Hare Pose B

Exhale and fold slowly into Shashankasana. Sit on your heels once again, keeping the arms extended forward and palms as well as forehead resting on the floor.

Shashankasana or Hare Pose A

Inhale and slowly rise up with arms overhead; the spine is erect and gaze forward.

Vajrasana or Thunder Bolt Pose

Exhale and gently bring back your hands down and place the palms on your thighs.

General Instructions

  • Perform the entire sequence 3, 5, 7, 9 or 11 times based on your capability and energy levels.
  • After completing the process on the right side, initiate the entire process with the left leg.
  • Each pose is to be practised slowly and gradually by holding it for 2-3 breaths each.
  • It is best practised at sunset, when the moon is rising and when done with devotion & gratitude it becomes a full-bodied prayer unlocking new horizons.
  • Consult a health professional if you have recently had any back, hip, shoulders or knee injury.
  • Maintain the breathing instructions at all times in order to reap effective results.

Any practice comes to its fruition when done over a period of time, with a positive feeling and a sense of contentment. Adding meditation to the practice before or after or at both times can accentuate the results and create a flow in your movement, your attitude and life on the whole

Please note that there are many variations of the Moon Salutations and different school of thought practices different variations of Chandra namaskar. The version mentioned above is followed by Bihar School of Yoga and Kaivalyadhama Yoga Institute, India and taught by proclaimed yogis in Rishikesh, India.

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5 Meditative Practices for Everyone

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“I said to my soul, be still and wait without hope, for hope would be hope for the wrong thing; wait without love, for love would be love of the wrong thing; there is yet faith, but the faith and the love are all in the waiting. Wait without thought, for you are not ready for thought: So the darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.” ~ T.S. Eliot

I don’t have the patience to meditate. I’m sure one day I’ll work on myself enough to be able to sit in this kind of way, but meditating makes me feel antsy and impatient. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t seek out the wonders of a meditative mind elsewhere in my life.

In fact, I spend a lot of time doing things that will center me, and bring me to a higher meditative state. Everyone can find their “meditations” in different places, but here are a few of mine that I find to be particularly helpful in creating a meditative lifestyle.

Here are 5 Meditative Practices for Everyone

Practice “Gratefulness”

Meditative Practices for Everyone

In order to be truly grateful for what you receive (or don’t receive) in life, requires a sort of meditative mind. One can only be grateful for everything when they get past their ego that wants instant gratification and open miracles.

To practice being thankful, even when you’re down, is to truly be grateful for a universe that is guiding you where you need to go, whether you can see the good in every moment or not.

Being thankful for the good things that you clearly see in your life takes practice as well. Take a few minutes a day to think of all the things you are grateful for and see how quickly your day changes into one of bliss, as you clearly see your blessings unfolding before you.

Praying

Praying does not need to be linked with any religion. Praying is to acknowledge that you are not alone in the world, and that you are definitely not the one running it. Although we have power over our lives and the energies we put out, we are also not in control, and this means that we need to practice letting go of the illusion that we are.

This can mean sitting and asking the universe to help us through hard times and decisions. This can mean letting go and asking the universe to guide you. This can also mean, like I said above, to express gratitude for the goodness that is given to you every day.

Make your own rituals, whether you use a rug, a prayer book, a religious figure, or the open sky; make it your own, so that no two prayers ever look the same.

Spending Time in Nature

To spend time in nature is one of the best ways to connect to yourself, your God, and the universe and all the creatures that inhabit it with you. You can go for a walk, just sit and ponder, or bring your sketchbook out into the sunlight. Some people need to connect to nature more than others, for some it is a necessity to go between city and nature in order to feel centered in their daily life.

But regardless if this holds true for you, everyone can benefit from spending time in the great outdoors. Whether you use this time for inspiration, or merely clearing your mind and body from the city smog, the beautiful world will make you feel renewed every time.

Spending Time in Silence

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Silence is the most dreaded part of meditation. In silence is where we find the deepest parts of ourselves, and if we have deep fears or issues waiting to surface, this is when they will most likely make themselves known.

To dive into our deep inner world, and come out with jewels, whether they be insights or fears, takes courage. Spend some time just sitting and letting your mind wander, without focusing on one specific thing.

Put on calming music, get comfortable, do it in nature…whatever suits you. When you find that your mind keeps coming back to something specific, pull it out and examine it thoroughly and objectively, or write it down to deal with it at a later time.

Pull out your insights and do something with them, whether it’s the start of a new project, or a solution to a problem, implement it as soon as possible. If it’s a fear, sit with it, and though this might sound paradoxical, do not fear your fears.

Take it in your hand, accept whatever it may be, and work on how to fix or dissolve this fear.

Meditative Activities

Everyone has something they do that makes them feel still and calm inside. If you find that you don’t have a hobby or an activity that does this for you, then it’s time to start searching for one. For me, it’s writing. When I resurface from my notebook or laptop after writing, I feel cleansed, accomplished, and renewed.

I’ve felt that after painting, singing, or reading as well. Some people feel this after they go for a run, or attend a yoga class. Some people get this feeling by baking, sewing, or playing baseball.

Whatever it is for you, find it, and keep it as a loved one in your life. Even if it changes from week to week, or year to year, know and treat it as something precious.

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Breaking the Spell of the Reptilian Brain: From Primitive Brain to Evolved Mind

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 “Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so.” ~ Douglas Adams

What do bombs over Iraq, planes crashing into twin towers, drones over Afghanistan, and bombs over Paris have in common? The lizard brain.

Regardless of your ideological disposition, or where you might stand on conspiracy theories, or how you go about weighing the evidence about the rightness or wrongness of it all, we can probably all agree that these acts are lizard-brain acts of violence based on fear and anger.

Knee-jerk reactions to fear and anger usually don’t end well. Especially when outdated religions and xenophobic nationalism is muddling our brains into malleable mounds of gullible goulash.

This is an article about how our higher and lower brain is always butting “heads.” Pun intended. It’s about how our primitive brain is constantly at loggerheads with our advanced mind. How our lizard-brain relentlessly attempts to trip-up our evolved intelligence.

How our inner-believer incessantly uses outdated fear tactics to prevent our inner-thinker from thinking clearly. And how the primitive fear-based reaction of “fight or flight” is a constant roadblock to attaining the progressive crossroads that leads to human flourishing.

The Primitive brain

“You can’t see the universe clearly until you know who you are.” ~ Alexander Joblokov

The good thing about the primitive brain, evolutionarily speaking, is that it got us this far. The bad thing about the primitive brain is that it only gets us so far before we’re fighting over petty-ideals-turned-powerful-idols. Eventually some higher thinking is in order.

When you combine the fact that we are fundamentally social creatures with the fact that we are also fundamentally story-telling creatures, you get a creature that loves to create and tell mythologies and loves to believe in them.

The problem is belief tends to become blind belief, and blind belief tends to get a lot of things wrong. Especially without the evolved mind getting involved and questioning those belief.

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“Belief is a wound that knowledge heals.” ~ Ursula K. Le Guin

Another problem with blind belief is that it tends to breed “moral” tribes. But if this moral tribe doesn’t agree with that moral tribe’s morals, then there tends to be an immoral standoff. Suddenly both sides are (immorally) at each other’s throats over a so-called moral belief. Suddenly, otherwise non-violent moral people are creating violent immoral acts. How does this happen?
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Here’s an example: let’s say The Divine Order of the Flying Spaghetti Monster clings to the precept that all women must wear colanders in the presence of men. And let’s say that the Tribe of the Divine Wow thinks this is silly and decides to post “sacrilegious” drawings of Flying Spaghetti Monster women defying men without colanders on their heads.

And then the Divine Order bombs the sacred sanctuary of the Divine Wow, killing innocent people but still taking out a few blasphemous artists. But then the Divine Wow counterattacks, killing a few militants but mostly killing innocents. Eventually both sides forget about the petty beginnings of the conflict, and are now focused on the bloody consequences of their violent actions.

But the two warring tribes just keep going back and forth, high on outdated lizard-brain instincts, each considering the other a terrorist, but neither side willing to admit that they’re retaliation is just as much terrorist-like as the others.

Like Gandhi said, “An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.” Indeed.

My people/birthplace are better than your people/birthplace:

“Man is the only Patriot. He sets himself apart in his own country, under his own flag, and sneers at the other nations, and keeps multitudinous uniformed assassins on hand at heavy expense to grab slices of other people’s countries, and keep them from grabbing slices of his. And in the intervals between campaigns he washes the blood of his hands and works for “the universal brotherhood of man” -with his mouth.” ~ Mark Twain

Yet another problem with the primitive lizard-brain and the blind belief it pumps out, is that it tends to make people blindly patriotic as well. When these people over here think they are better than those people over there, and those people over there think they are better than those other people from that other place over there –and just because of where they happened to be born or what they might look like– then there is the tendency toward xenophobia and bigotry.

But this xenophobia and bigotry are just obsolete, lizard-brain, knee-jerk reactions to the unknown. They function on the same lower frequency vibration as the “my god is better than your god” myopic reasoning. They are outdated at best and parochial at worst, based on the outmoded aspects of tribalism. So why not just ignore them? Why not just get rid of them?

It’s not that simple. It’s all tangled up in the foundation of our thought-process. They are an aspect of our lizard-brain trying to keep us “safe” from the unknown. So it’s actually our own responsibility to keep them under control. We just have to learn how to use them as psychological tools, instead of allowing them to use us like sycophantic fools.

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“It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain a thought without accepting it.” ~ Aristotle

Now enter, the evolved mind. It is the mark of an evolved mind to entertain a belief without accepting it.

There’s no need to accept it when we can just consider it and then move on smartly. Instead of putting all our eggs into just one basket while clinging to it for dear life, we can put a few eggs into a basket at a time, thoughtfully consider each basket using logic, reasoning, and probability, and then move on skeptically with our knowledge in tow.

Seems simple enough. Well, it’s not. Especially when the primitive lizard-brain gets all overly sentimental and intellectually sloppy with the beliefs it refuses to let go of. Better not to cling to any particular basket, or baskets, in the first place. Best to entertain a basket without accepting it as the be-all-end-all of baskets.

Our mythologies (Gods) are all unique and entertaining:

“Nothing is too wonderful to be true, if it be consistent with the laws of nature.” ~ Michael Faraday

The evolved mind has a solution to the “my god is better than your god” quagmire. Treat their god like Aristotle advised us to treat thoughts, and then have the courage to do the same with our own idea of god. That is to say: entertain a god without accepting it. Instead of getting all hung-up on “my god is better,” let that lower-frequency shit go and vibrate on a higher-frequency with an affirmation like this: “My god is just another god, ad nauseum.”

Or, better yet, this: “My god is just my own insecurity about death rearing its ugly head. It wants to feel secure so badly that it created this mythological being I refer to as ‘god’ to make me feel more comfortable.” Have fun with it. Get creative. Just remember: don’t cling to your god, because it’s clinging to gods that leads to innocent people getting bombed.

Like Bradford Keeney said, “Words are only useful in teasing one another. In teasing we are less likely to get stuck in any particular belief, attitude, or form of knowing.” Evolution begins at home. Tease yourself every day, again and again. Then you might earn the right to effectively tease others.

If enough people have a sense of humor about their version of god, instead of taking themselves and their version of god too seriously, then the less terrorism there will be. We just need more people willing to think instead of blindly believe. Remember that petty feud between the Divine Order and the Divine Wow?

Well, if enough people from both sides can learn to entertain a god (both their own and that of others) without accepting it, then nobody gets bombed. Better to think first and believe second. Better to have a sense of humor, and laugh at god, than to be serious and praise god.

As Bradford Keeney also advised, “Tease God. Do not fear God. A fool’s love is what God loves best. It represents the ready and available heart of a child at play.”

Planet Earth is our mutual birthplace and all of mankind is our brethren

“Nobody is superior or inferior, nobody’s equal either. Everyone is unique and incomparable.” ~ Osho I-Swear-To-Drunk-Im-Not-God-Funny-Lizard

The evolved mind understands the importance of diversity within nature and culture. A variety of cultures is always healthier than just a few. Especially when those few cultures are being jammed down people’s throats.

Better to have variation, a multiplicity, and a wide array of arts, of literature, of theater, of mythologies, of gods, and different ways of being in the world.

Human beings are not meant to be pigeonholed into singular ideas, stale ideologies or finite belief structures. We are meant to explore ideas, ideologies and beliefs, while expounding upon them and launching humanity into a further flourishing of its own evolution.

The more we explore, the less likely we are to get stuck in any particular belief, politics, or nationalism. The more we explore, the more compassionate, empathetic and loving we become.

The more we think, and not believe, the more likely we are to come up with better questions instead of clinging to outdated answers. The better questions we have, the more updated answers we get. The more variety and diversity we have, the more connections we’re able to make.

The more connections that are made, the more likely we are to become aware of the majesty of our interdependence. The more aware we become of our interdependence, the more likely we are to be interconnected with all things.

And then we’re finally able to feel with our evolved minds –not know, feel– the following words by Neil deGrasse Tyson: “We are all connected; to each other, biologically; to the earth, chemically; to the rest of the universe, atomically.”

Entropy will always be there, sure. But life will be there too, evening the score, and levelling the playing field. But in order to keep the score even, in order to keep the playing field level, there must be people with evolved minds willing to question things. There must be people responsible enough to keep their own lizard-brain in check.

There must be people willing to control their knee-jerk reactions to fear and anger, and to not be reduced to mere puppets of their primitive brain. There must be people capable of asking questions such as this one by Daniel J. Siegel: “How can we be receptive to the mind’s riches and not just reactive to its reflexes?

How can we direct our thoughts and feelings rather than be driven by them?” How indeed.

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Eight Books Every Parent Should Read to their Child

“Stories live in your blood and bones, follow the seasons and light candles on the darkest night-every storyteller knows she or he is also a teacher…” ~ Patti Davis

When I was a child, I absolutely loved to read. I would devour everything and anything I could get my hands on. But as I grew I learnt the importance that literature really had in affecting my life, and I started searching for books that would fill me with the meaning and insight I desired.

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And once I knew these truths I wanted to pass them on to my children, and instill in them, not only the creative and inquisitive nature of a reader, but that of a searcher of truth, kindness, and integrity. I hope these few book titles give you and your children understanding of the beautiful world around you and spark meaningful conversations between you and your loved ones.

The Quiltmaker’s Gift by Jeff Brumbeau

This enchanting and magically illustrated, The Quiltmaker’s Gift, tells a story of the old quilt-maker who made the most beautiful quilts in all the land, not to sell, but only to give away to the poor and needy. When the greedy and unhappy king demands a quilt for himself, the quilt-maker sets a condition that will teach the king the importance of giving.

Children learn: One does not gain happiness through receiving more, but only through giving and kindness does one find true pleasure in possessions.

A Bad Case of the Stripes by David Shannon

“Camilla Cream loves Lima Beans, but she never eats them. Why? Because the kids in her school don’t like them.” This colorful and quirky, A Bad Case of the Stripes goes through the mishaps of a little girl who is anxious to impress, and what happens when she can’t seem to be herself.

Camilla breaks out in colorful stripes on her first day of school. She and her parents try everything until a sweet old lady comes to shed some insight on why Camilla might not be feeling quite herself.

Children learn: Being yourself is more important than what others may think or do around us.

Have You Filled a Bucket Today? by Carol McCloud

have-you-filled-a-bucket-today-childrens-book This wonderful book for all ages goes through a seemingly complicated subject in an easy to understand metaphor.

In Have You Filled a Bucket Today? each person has a bucket, it explains, when it is full we are happy, and when it is empty we feel sad. It shows how each person (and child) can fill other people’s buckets or empty them by being nice or mean to others.

It even explains how people who try to empty buckets usually have an empty bucket themselves, but by emptying others they are still not filling theirs. This is a great book for children just starting on their new school journey, or for every child with a kind heart.

Children learn: The concept of self-esteem and happiness levels that everyone has. They learn how to be a “bucket filler” for other people by being kind and saying nice things.

You With The Stars in Your Eyes by Deepak Chopra

you-with-the-stars-in-your-eyes-deepak-chopraThis beautiful and majestic story tells a deep and spiritual story of Cosmic Consciousness.

When five year old Tara asks her grandfather about love and life, the moon herself comes down to explain to her how they are all a part of the same universe, acting as mirrors for the stars above. ‘You With The Stars in Your Eyes’ is a wonderful “conversation-starter book” to share with your inquisitive children.

Children learn: What TRUE love really means, and how everything in the world acts as mirrors around us.

Oh, The Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss

This classic tongue-twisting book talks about the ups and downs in everyone’s life. In his wonderful nonsensical way, Dr. Seuss makes you think about the journey of one life and all the many ways it can go. He talks about the times in our life when we are moving, staying, waiting, or even feeling lonely.

Oh, The Places You’ll Go‘ makes you feel happy and sad throughout, but it leaves a hopeful and empowering message to all the little journeyers. “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your way. And you know what you know. And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.”

Children learn
: About the many ups and downs they may experience, but most of all they learn that they have a very special life waiting in front of them and a big “You’ll move mountains kid!” encouragement.

The Raindrop by Brian D. McClurethe-raindrop-childrens-book

This little book filled with character tells the story of a little raindrop who felt discouraged and worthless. “I am just a raindrop,” he says “I am smaller than small. What am I doing here? I have no use at all…”

Join Raindrops journey as he learns not only his worth, but the worth of every little raindrop that falls from the sky. The Raindrop is a simple yet profound story lets children and their parents explore the truth in every unique persons journey.

Children learn: The worth of each and every person no matter how small, even when the person cannot see his worth right now.

Sam Tells Stories by Thierry Robberecht

Sam Tells Stories is an engaging book about Sam, who tells stories to impress his classmates. Soon he gets into some trouble when people believe him, and learns the difference between a story and a fib. But most importantly he learns that he is a special and likeable kid, even without his big stories.

good-people-everywhere-children-booksChildren learn: The importance of honesty, and the importance of just being themselves, because being themselves is good enough.

Good People Everywhere by Lyrea Gillen

This sweet and calming book is bound to be your child’s favorite bedtime story. ‘Good People Everywhere‘ is a heart-warming story that shows many different stories and people being kind and working for good causes.

A beautiful experience for little children to see all the goodness around them, and the things that they can do to give good back to the world.

Children learn: All the goodness that people are capable of giving, and all the goodness that they themselves have to give.

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